Girlfriend Granted Opportunity - the blank check

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  1. Kidsinatra

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    Hey there!!
    I'll leave my name out, as it doesn't effect the scenario at all.*

    I'm a 23 year old male who just moved down to southern California from northern California.*
    My girlfriend of 6 ish months age 21 (who still lives in northern California) will be visiting in a few weeks, for a few days, and presented to me what seems like the opportunity of a lifetime.*
    One, full day, of sex.*

    I want to take complete advantage of this, as I won't see her again likely for at least a month or two after she leaves.*

    I'm without a doubt going to bring her around to visit the many beaches southern California has to offer, I will bring her out dining, and to whatever attractions and events I'm sure she'll enjoy; I'm not a jackass of a boyfriend.*

    I simply have a profoundly high sex drive. *I will visit a doctor after she leaves to consider options to suppress this, as it's almost to a point where my never ending sexual desire impedes me from living a normal life. (I'll bring this up in a separate thread for discussion later).*

    I'm very physically fit and healthy, as I exercise rigorously daily and maintain a healthy diet.*

    I have the book, She Comes First, and have provided her with oral pleasure, but she prefers penis to vagina stimulation. *She lacks tact in reciprocating, but this does not at all bother me at all.*

    I will be getting a hotel/motel, as I am living with my parents again, and plan on making a big mess :D

    I'm curious if there are hotels or motels that are designed specifically for this purpose and thus have tools (swings, beds with restraints, etc...).*

    *I downloaded an app with over a hundred positions as a first step to keep things interesting.*

    I'm open to purchasing restraints and other toys, *but will likely not use them again as we will only see each other once in a while.*

    We are going to consume alcohol for part of the day to increase sexual stimulation and (because I secretly believe I'll be able to last longer).*

    I'm open to, think it would be a very good idea to, am sure it would pleasure her more if, and would very very much like to purchase Viagra substitue or other ED supplements for a prolonged erection, as on my best day, once in a blue moon, I can last 15-20 minutes. Any other day I'm done and have to rest after 2-5 minutes of stimulation.*
    PLEASE help me figure out how to make this happen.*

    We have consumed recreational drugs that I know increase pleasure during intercourse, but we've agreed to stay away from them from here on out.*

    Thank you in advance for your constructive advice!!
     
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    Sorry for the asterisks. Copied from notes on my iPad.
     
  3. MordsithLove

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    Welp! I from the area, and if you do find a love shack, lemme know cause I'd get me a room there in a hot minute.

    As for lasting longer...try more foreplay before and during sex...my fiancé and I have been doing this, and our sessions are at least 30-40 minutes, 10 of which is actual penetration.

    Good luck, and welcome to the forums :)
     
  4. Mittimer

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    Alcohol can actually kill your hard on or make it damn near impossible. Drink a few drinks, don't get shit faced drunk.

    I don't suggest going to a sex motel, club etc. Think about the amount of people who have used those objects before you. Ick lol. Buy some stuff, it's not like they will go bad. Plus most restraints are so inexpensive you can pretty much toss them away without feeling bad.

    Don't illegally purchase Viagra, nobody here will teach you how to get a hold of it. As far as making you last longer, there are little drink shots and various pills that exist at adult shops that could work. You don't want to drink with anything that's going to keep you up for an extended period of time, so avoid large amounts of alcohol.

    Just try to remember to have fun and not make sex a task. It will lose it's worth when you do that.
     
  5. MordsithLove

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    Mitt has got a point about the motel idea...

    Cooties...ewwwah :eek
     
  6. Mittimer

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    lol, it's not so much about the cooties. I've been to clubs and used things that others have used. There is also a strict cleaning with anti-microbial, bacterial ect fluids after each use. Even if you were just sitting on it. They can and will also bring around black lights to check for various fluids to make sure you really did clean and so you can make sure you cleaned properly too.

    That's here though. I know and trust that place. Other places that I'm just going in and out of for the night? No, probably not. Especially if sex is involved. There are various sex-friendly clubs around the Orlando area, one that I know of in particular. Personally, you couldn't pay me to go into it. Not because I'm a prude, God knows I'm not lol. But because you just can't trust other people to take the proper precautions to make sure that you don't get yourself infected.

    If that's a risk that you're willing to take, by all means go right ahead. I'll stick to boring old hotels with my own toys though :p
     
  7. Essene

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    I'd assume (or at least hope) any sort of place, that's a legal business, where lascivious acts are carried on are held to some degree of scrutiny via health codes, etc.

    The entire idea of a sex club/hotel is completely a turn off to me. It reminds me of many Max Payne scenes.

    More on topic, If you don't want to find one in So-Cal (which I'd find to be a very unlikely scenario), I'm sure if you hop, skip, and jump you can find one in Nevada.
     
  8. vKane

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    Mitt is definitely right about the alcohol - too much will inhibit erections and actually dull your pleasure. If you have an entire day to devote to this you would be far better served to forget about the Viagra and the performance enhancers and make a delicious seven course meal out of the experience instead of looking at this as an athletic competition. More apt to get a repeat visit from your girlfriend as well if there was more to the experience than an extended penis in vagina intercourse marathon.

    In full agreement with Mord as long drawn out foreplay maximizes endorphin release for both parties - you could make the entire day an extended make out session and focus on slowly building and maintaining a high level of arousal and sneak in short bouts of oral, manual, or even intercourse between meals, trips to the beach, etc. and do this without ejaculating all day until the end. Enjoy each others company in the most delicious ways you can think up. If your lady friend gets overheated and wants to come let her have her orgasm(s) but pace yourself and hold off for the big finish at the end of the day. Way more to sexual enjoyment than penis in vagina intercourse so take the pressure off yourself about having to "perform". If you get her smoking hot from a full day's worth of engagement and intimate attention it won't matter how long you last inside her - it will rock both of your worlds no matter how long it lasts.
     
  9. 12barblues

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    Well you're 23 yrs old....so it goes like this....

    Sexual activity, orgasm, 90 seconds of recovery time, more sexual activity,orgasm, 90 seconds of recovery time, more sexual activity, orgasm,90 seconds of recovery time, more sexual activity......and so on..


    You won't need any enhancing drugs...
    Oh to be 23 again.....:D
     
  10. SWOJLO

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    Let me save you the exam fees or co-pay expense of a doctors visit.

    Doctor- " Good morning, what seems to be the problem?"

    Kidsinatra- "Well doc, I seem to be horny all the time."

    Doctor- "Ah, I think I see what the problem might be. In my expert medical opinion I would point out that you are 23!! Here is a prescription for some Jergens hand lotion. Now if you would please stop humping my leg and put that thing away then I think we are done here."

    Kidsinatra- "OK thanks doc, I'll be done in just a second"

    ** With the money I just saved you, maybe you could buy the rest of the forum members a beer? :)
     
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  11. MordsithLove

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    Hey may have a sex addiction ??? That's something you'd want to seek some kind of help for right?