Girlfiend wants to film us having sex

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Northside, Jul 12, 2010.

  1. Northside

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    My girlfriend wants to video us having sex. She also wants pictures of me going down on her. She loves that. I know that once I do it there's no going back and that it could be used to embarrass me. I'm single so what's the big deal. Might be fun. I'm still a little apprehensive. I'm pretty sure I can trust her.
     
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    If you're only "pretty sure" you can trust her, I honestly wouldn't do it. I'm engaged to be married, I trust my Fiancee with my life, but I will not let him photograph or video us having sex.

    In the off chance that he shows the wrong person, or we divorce/break up, I really don't want it used out of anger/spite.


    Do what you're comfortable with, Northside, but don't do anything that you'll regret.
     
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    If you are not comfortable with it, do not do it. There really has to be a great deal of trust in such an action. I may be old fashioned but it is not something you should consider before being married. While married people do turn on each other, before marriage there is even less of a commitment and easier for one little thing to generate the anger/spite to cause one to use this to embarrass the other.

    I say this as someone who enjoys filming sex with my wife - but I waited many years after we were married until she was comfortable about it, did not push it, and after we had gone through enough experiences where I knew there was no way I would be tempted to share them with others. Even though we enjoy it, I strongly tell others to proceed (if at all) with lots of caution down this road.
     
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    Don't do it, man. It will ruin your chance at becoming President one day, I just know it.
     
  5. Northside

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    I already was President....... of our Motorcycle club, so that's not a worry, besides those guys all know I'm bangin' that chick anyway. Thanks for your concern C.L. I saw who Clinton was bangin' and I am already gettin' better stuff than that President!
     
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    I sooo wouldn't do it if I were you ! stuff like this only ever leads to trouble ! even with people you think you can trust 100% be very careful it might seem like fun at the time but it's very likely to come back and bite you in the ass later !