Know, I am not that stupid I know how to do it, but I was just wondering what I need to use to make sure it doesnt hurt her. When we are having sex, she will ask for it in the ass and I will finger it for her and she loves that and I wanted to finger her first before I just stuck my dick in there so she would be sure she would like it. So now she really wants me to do it in her ass. Any advice on anything would be nice. Thanks.