Im 19 and my girlfriend is 18, we've been together for 6 months and have a good sex life with each other. My question is why will my girlfriend not have anal sex with me, but used to do it with her ex-boyfriend all the time? Her and her ex-boyfriend never had sex so they would just do anal, she says that the only reason they did it was b/c she would never let him have sex with her so she just let him do her in the butt. She hates her ex-boyfriend, and even hated him while they were going out and finally broke up with him for good, and has not talked to him since they broke up a year ago. She has explained to me what it was like and said that first it would hurt but after a bit then it would feel okay, but they would never go till he came in her. I think the reason she wil not do it with me is because she never liked it in the first place, they only did it because he insisted. And I am not the type of guy to force a girl to do anything. We have tryed before but before she will let me start to stick it in her butt, she backs out and justs wants to have normal sex. I'm NOT saying that regular sex isnt good enough with her, because it is! But it just makes me jealous that she would do anal with her ex-bf, but not with me, even though she claims she loves me more then anything. (which I believe her and I really love her to!) Also i find weird is that she loves it when I stick my finger in her ass while were having sex. If we never do anal that will be okay, but honestly i'm just alittle jealous and curious, why wont she atleast try it with me? iv'e never done anal before!