Hey guys and gals. I'm kind of in a funk. I haven't had sex in several years. I'm 44, but look younger as I work out and stay fit. No kids. I don't do drugs or drink much. I do smoke though. I would consider myself above average looking with a muscular build, light blue eyes and brown hair, although it is very thin. I got started with the opposite sex a little late in life (mid-20's) and had a few gf's and was even married for a few years, but haven't been involved since my late 30's. I'm a quiet person by nature and don't go out much. I've only been to bars a few times in my life. Part of the problem is I work 3rd shift and live in a fairly small town, but I don't really like busy places either. Anyway, I've been trying some dating sites (mostly the free ones) with limited success early on, but nothing the past couple years. The few ladies that do respond are not attractive to me at all. Any ideas what to do to get some action before I get too old? Lately I've resorted to searching for adult theaters and massage parlors and such in the bigger cities as I hear you can get some "services" there if you play your card right. I also noticed there are escort services on craigs list too. I'm kind of leary of going this route as I want to be safe and don't want to get in trouble obviously and it looks like the better looking ladies can be a little pricey. I've never had to pay before and don't really want to go that route, but then again maybe it will get my confidence up and get me back into the groove. btw, I know I may be a little picky too as I like women to be in shape with nice legs. Any advice?