Getting back into the " pool " question on swinger/hook up sites.

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  1. GuyBme

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    Okay , I am about to get back into jw dating pool after about , well really about ten years. And it kind if scares me a bit. I have no idea what I am doing lol. I do not want another serious relationship , at least for quite a while , and I dabbled in swinging and open relationships before. I am coming out of a very vanilla relationship and want more. I am older ( 40 ) and am in a smaller town , the dating pool is small.
    My question is , do any of you have any experience or knowledge on swinger / hook up sites such as AFF , Swing Life Style , Quiver , or anything like that?
    And any other " dating " advice or tips and such is appreciated by this new " fish " in the sea.
     
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    When my wife and I were looking for a single guy to join us, we used Swing Life Style. I'm not a big fan of their e-mail system but we worked around it. Unfortunately, any site that can be used for free will attract a lot of fakes and flakes so there is that to deal with.

    My advise is to be very careful about the wording in your ad. Be specific as to what you are looking for. Be up front about being bi or straight. If you can, pay the monthly fee and try to connect with paying members. If you can get a couple recommendations, your popularity will go up. Soon your calendar will be filled with dates for erotic delights.
     
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    Thank you. Yeah , I figured a much on the pay vs free thing. So I will probably do a pay option. I am very aware of the games and pic collectors.
     
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    40 ain't old!!!! Pffft
     
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    Not young either lol. Just harder to start out again ya know?
     
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    I'm 40. I know. Dating sucks.
     
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    Loli dont even know where to start.
     
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    As a potential date: figure out what you want before you go looking for anything.
    And don't send duck pics until after she has seen it in person 3 times.
     
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    Lol duck pics.

    But yes. Good advice. Thank you
     
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    Sorry, don't have any advice.
    I agree with the duck pics. Cat pics, however, are always acceptable, even from the beginning! :p
     
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    Lol nice
     
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    What if you have a really big fat duck? Still no pics??? That quacks me up. :p :D
     
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    Sorry I had a typo. Jeez
     
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    Just a tease sexxxy. ;)
     
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    I knew what you meant lol . Its just such a common auto correct
     
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    Duck you! Lol (kidding)
     
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    Sounds dirty and wrong.......i'm in
     
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    OK, this is MY favourite quote...
     
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    That's what I'm saying.... and a ten year relationship...pfttttt.