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  1. Tech

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    I worry about the size of my hood. It is "fine" I guess, an average size.

    time and time my girlfriend has said that its not about the size but what you do with it - and I have always satisfied her, even make her cum at least twice everytime we have sex, so I must be doing something good (and I am an amateur!)

    But, I just wish I had a bigger hood to satisfy her even more.... since she has been with previous men who may have had a bigger hood than me.

    she keeps saying that its fine and she loves it, that the thickness is great and what I do with it is great, however I still feel I need/want a bigger hood.

    is there a way (naturally) to do this? What things can I do to get the process started? Do they work?

    Thanks
     
  2. igor

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    Listen to her !!!!!!!! She is satisfied!!!!! Nothing you can do will change what you have/what you are.
     
  3. Dreama

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    Dude-stop worrying about what you don't have, and what you'll never have. You're fine the way were are.
     
  4. Tech

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    Thanks... but still, I would feel a bit better if I could make it bigger
     
  5. Puss_in_boots

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    Yeah, and I'd feel a bit better if I had a body like Angelia Jolie's but I know that's just not going to happen. My boyfriend likes me the way I am.
     
  6. Tech

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    yeh but you are a girl... for men, its different
     
  7. HardRocker

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    So you think men are more insecure about how they look?
    What is a hood anyway?
    Don't re-start this same old thread we've seen every time a new teenager signs up. Go read the other "My dick is not big enough" threads; the answers are all the same. They always have been and they always will be... because the answers are correct, whether you refuse to believe it or not. You'll just mess up your sex life nursing this insecurity. Women break up with insecure men.
     
  8. Tech

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    well thats stupid of women..... and im not a teenager.

    i ask a simple question - i expect someone to help me rather than starting the immature bashing from an uneducated person
     
  9. Puss_in_boots

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    Why is breaking up with an insecure man a stupid thing to do? Self-confidence is one of the sexiest things about a man. And no one was implying that you were a teenager. It's just that we get asked these questions all the time from new members, usually from younger guys whose perception of size has been distorted from watching too much porn. We tell them that there's much more to having sex than penis size, although I'm sure you're aware of this since you're not a teenager. They never believe us, though. They're absolutely convinced that there's no way they'll be able to satisfy a woman unless they have a monster in their trousers and can last for hours.

    Both men and women experience insecurities and anxieties about their bodies. How is it "different" for men? We recently had a new member who was so insecure about her body that she had never once let her boyfriend see her naked in the two years they'd been together.

    You said in your second post, "I would feel better if I were bigger." So this really has nothing to do with your girlfriend, does it? She's just fine with you the way you are. It's actually you who are not fine with you the way you are.

    In answer to your original question, the only way to increase your size is through surgery.

    Finally, understand that when you ask for advice in a forum, you might not always get the kind of advice you want to hear. No one is being immature or bashing you. We're simply trying to help you understand that you're just fine the way you are. What's so bad about that?
     
  10. HardRocker

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    Sorry if I came across as brash, Tech, but you've been here for 6 years. I figure you've seen all the answers anyway.
    I am actually educated.