I have a work/relationship problem. Problem 1) I have some personal issues, baggage (whatever the going term is) like everyone else; I am working on them and doing well however when I get tired I revert back to a bad part of me - i get obssesive, angry and negative. (Yes, I know it is very unattractive - hence why I am working on it). Problem 2) My work. I run a vet hospital with 3 new doctors. If you haven't worked in a vet hospital it is stressful - everyone comes in emotionally charged, often crying, sometimes without money and all wanting to fix their beloved dog. In the last 3 weeks, I have had one day off. The last 4 nights - I have gotten emergency calls at midnight, every night. My hours run 10 - 14 hours each. At work I am happy and perky! Have to be for the staff and clients. At home, I am great until I totally run out of steam (after 7 or more days in a row). By the time I get home from a 12 hour day, know that I may be at work at midnight and then back to work at 6am for another 10+ hour shift----- I have a hard time not being a jerk! Anyone have advice other than leaving my job or becoming a hermit? I am taking out my stress on the person who should be getting my best!