General Cunnilingus Tips

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by thelonelyvirgin, Dec 19, 2014.

  1. thelonelyvirgin

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    Hey guys,

    So lately I've been getting close to this girl, and we've started giving each other head. I have a little bit of experience, but I feel like my repertoire is severely limited. I feel as if I've got one of two moves (up-and-down or left-and-right), and I don't have the imagination to to improvise on my own.

    Which brings me here. On tips, moves, sites, etc. that can help my head game?

    Thanks all.
     
  2. cbrmale

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    Get your girl to show you how she masturbates for a few minutes, and use what you see as a guide for your tongue. You don't need a hundred moves to make a woman come, just the right way in the right spot will do it.
     
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    Simple, yet perfect advice....
     
  4. Doitagain

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    Yeah cbrmale has it right however if she is like my wife she may be a little too self concious to masturbate while you watch so for me I do it like it's for me to get off not her and I go by her reaction and feed off it , no pun intended.

    Or try the ol Sam Kinison and to the alphabet with your tongue
     
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    Ask Michael from across the pond. He seems to know it all when it comes to making women swoon.

    :rolleyes:
     
  6. Northside

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    Every woman I've eaten out has been different. Few will tell you what they like best, but if you try different things and see how she reacts, you'll be able to give her the experience she likes. Try softly licking near her clit, sucking at her clit, blowing on her clit, sticking your tongue into her hole to find her G spot, and actually sucking her hole. See how she reacts and then you'll know.
     
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    A little TUHA may be helpful ;)
     
  8. cbrmale

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    I originally learned by getting a girl to show me for a few minutes. She was a shy girl but quite happy to show me at the time, and you don't need to watch for long before you get the hang of what she's doing. When I got it straight away I realised this technique works really well.
     
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    Light butterfly wing type licks of your tongue tip across the clit hood or maybe rapid but light buzzing bee?
    Or long flat & slow tongue licks starting from the vaginal entrance going upwards to her clit around and back down drives some crazy.
    Actually vibrating your vocal cords (e.g. vocalising aaaah) can transmit wonderful sensations as you are licking.
    So many variations to the theme surely there is one there for almost every girl :)
     
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    Go slow, until she says to go faster! Stay there until the job is done! Be sure to be closely shaved, sandpaper chin may get you kicked in the head!
     
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    There you go, all are different. Never had same ways.
     
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    The easiest and most obvious is to ask her to tell and / or show but some are too self conscious and you have to discover for yourself.
    Ideas here
    Place your lips around the clit, large circle, shrink it until they are in contact with the clit then suck it.
    Start gentle and slow, try increasing pressure, sucking to see what is good for her.
    Use your tongue to circle the clit, avoid it on purpose to let her wait for it a while, before you have it.
    Don't neglect the everything part of her, the lips like attention too for some and it gets things started nicely.
    Use your hands and fingers to cares around and the lips. I drove someone CRAZY and dripping wet doing just that., taking each side between thumb and finger and rubbing the flesh between them as if massaging.
    Push your tongue in as if trying to fuck.
    Check online ... NOT porn but rather sexuality, erotic and educative sites.
     
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    Throw her legs on your shoulders, suck on the clit, and use your fingers when she's good and wet
     
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    Pace is something that's important as well. If you go at her too hard too soon , you may find that she won't ever get there. But if you start nice and slow, and build in intensity, that's key. If you come in too hot, she may spend the entire experience with her teeth clinched, feeling pressured, over sensitized and unable to relax and reach orgasm.
     
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    A girl once told me that me writing the alphabet with the tip of my tongue would do cool things to her pussy. I was about 18 or 19 at the time...and since then thats what I have done and it seems to be enjoyable.
     
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    Your enjoyment level will also probably affect your performance. The more you like it, the more she will too.

    If she has long lips (yummy) play with them. Lick inside and outside from top to bottom. I suck them in and lick them clean since they are great at holding pussy juice.

    Also, a good way to deal with sandpaper chin (i sometimes forget to shave daily) is to finger her g-spot while you lick her clit. Hold your hand, palm up, and rest your chin on your palm, your pointer and index should be on her g-spot. If you dont feel the g spot, you will. The closer she gets to orgasm, the bigger it gets. You can actually feel it getting swollen, pretty cool actually.

    I love eating out my girlfriend. She tastes amazing, cant get enough of her. She is unusually sweet and the best I have ever tasted. I actually try not to make her cum too quickly, cause then I dont get enough time down there.

    Also, i learned that tounge fucking is really good... I was just trying to get at the juices lol
     
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    do all the above then when shes getting wet and showing signs of delight try hummimg!!! it s just like a vibrator if done right!!!
     
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    wow
     
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    This works to its direct
     
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    Use your tongue to write each letter of the alphabet on and around her clit and pussy...I'll bet you don't get past "O"...