I'm a 27 year old guy who has taken notice of the intensity of orgasms as they relate to gender. Women's orgasms always seem much more intense or full of sensation than the orgasms belonging to men. My own orgasms, while feeling good, aren't mind blowing... I have found ways of increasing sensation quite a bit, but I've noticed that the women I am with all but lose control of their bodies when they cum, a few of them actually do lose control. I find it all very interesting. Do you think it's due to the frequency with which most men masterbate... that they're so rough with themselves that the feel of a woman or the pressure with which she plays with him pales in comparison? I suppose there could be many issues, but men seem to have a very sedated reaction to orgasm in comparison to women. What are your thoughts?