Gay porn observations

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  1. Barbwire

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    OK, so the other day I got an idea to watch gay porn to pay close attention to the blowjob scenes to see if maybe I could get some pointers. I didn't really see anything new that I could add to my repertoire, but I did notice something that made me think.

    In the scenes with anal sex, it appeared to me that the man doing the penetrating was much more gentle and a lot less frenzied than in the anal sex scenes I've seen when a man is anally penetrating a woman.

    From what I observed, in the few clips I watched, the man on man action was easier on the poundee because the pounder was not really fucking hard and fast. The poundees seemed to get some enjoyment out of it and did not seem to be in any pain.

    The "straight" anal scenes I've seen are quite the opposite. The men look like they are being too rough and the women look to be in pain. Yeah, they are moaning and acting like it's the best thing in the world, but, to me anyways, their pain is evident.

    Has anyone else noticed this? Does anyone know why it is the way it is?
     
  2. Kanto

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    I can only guess its because the two of them have reversed pounder/poundee roles on a number of occasions, and as such are better suited to understanding what a good anal session is really supposed to feel like.
     
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    if I were penetrated anally, I'd sure want it to be slow and easy.
     
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    Sad but true!

    Sad to say there do exist evil people out there who really get off on hurting others. And worse! There are well documented cases in the famous "snuff" videos where the "poundee" is actually tortured and killed! And there are people who I would genuinely consider perverted and sick, who enjoy it, and get horny with it! I suspect the band that is responsible for the murder of over 100 young women in that Mexican boarder town are just such types!
     
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    Well you see this alot in straight porn. Men "abuse" (I'm not talking BDSM level of abuse but you def. don't "feel the love") the women in the porn films because thats what some of the audience expects and demands. Personally, I find it quite a turn off unless I'm specifically looking for that; which isn't often.

    I'd also imagine that many of the women in the amateur scenes aren't really used to having a 12in cock shoved up their ass all that often. Many of the gay actors however, would be.
     
  6. Dreama

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    That kind of makes me a little angry. I've noticed that too. It's like the porn industry has enough respect for men to not make them look like mere sex objects, but it's alright to throw respect out the window with women. I think double standards like that promote violence, personally.
     
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    it's probably a power/gender role thing. I feel like everything in straight porn is like, "the more like a jackhammer, the better" from blowjobs, to vaginal intercourse to anal.


    Maybe it has to do with the filmmakers/audience. Men are watching most of the straight porn and most of the gay porn, so the POV of the woman is irrelevant. In gay porn it's all male, and they know what will feel good to them, or hurt them so they act accordingly. Just a thought.
     
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    The current style of porn is a major turn-off to me. I have some late 1970s and 1980s porn, purchased at the time and recently copied from tape to DVD. I also have three couples movies I purchased in Paris a couple of years ago, which are hotter than the usual couples porn, but quite romantic at the same time. I bought these because there were widescreen, and that adds an extra dimension.

    But I have also seen contemporary film clips and I'm not interested in this style of sexual depiction at all. I don't know if these clips will promote violence per se, I doubt it, but they will certainly warp the sexual persona of many men (and more than a few women) who watch them.
     
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    Could it be that the "actors" aren't really gay, they just did the gay movie for the money. I may be wrong.
     
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    It makes me so happy to see guys denouncing mainstream porn :tup It's a genuine relief to see that so many guys get it, and don't want anything to do with it. The porn industry as a whole is pretty much synonymous with woman-bashing, literally and figuratively. Just the other day I came across a stomach-turning quote from a porno big wig somewhere in the blogosphere...I spent a little time hunting it down for inclusion here because I think it sums things up rather well:

    "My whole reason for being in this Industry is to satisfy the desire of the men in the world who basically don't much care for women and want to see the men in my Industry getting even with the women they couldn't have when they were growing up. I strongly believe this... so we come on a woman's face or somewhat brutalize her sexually: we're getting even for their lost dreams. I believe this. I've heard audiences cheer me when I do something foul on screen. When I've strangled a person or sodomized a person, or brutalized a person, the audience is cheering my action, and then when I've fulfilled my warped desire, the audience applauds." --Bill Marigold (ex-porn star/porn producer)
     
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    That is really disturbing, Bluesy.