Gay husband

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  1. BritneyButt

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    My GF just found out that her hubby of 8 years has been having a sexual relationship with another man. She is devastated but there were always rumors that her hubby maybe playing for the other team, but she wrote it off to jealousy. She went and got herself checked and she's clean, thank god. From what she's gathered her husband was the submissive every time he had sex with this other man.
     
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    Just because he has sex with another man does not make him gay. Unless he admitted to being gay don't assume.
     
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    Either way, he cheated.
     
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    makes him at least Bi and a cheat o_O
     
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    That would be my concern. The sexual orientation is of non-issue as much as the going outside without the involvement or consent of the SO.
     
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    I think honestly, it only makes him a cheat, if there's one thing I can take away from this thread, people are a little too quick with the labels lol
     
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    One of my closet friends is gay, and he says this goes on a lot. Most of the men that hit on him are married.
     
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    Unless he was raped, it's safe to assume he willingly had sex with a man, which is safe to assume he was sexually attracted to this man, which makes him homosexual or bisexual. The definition of homosexual is a person who is sexually attracted to people of their own sex. Obviously.
     
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    Lol no shit. I just hate whensomeone says hey they had sex with a person of the same sex so they must be closeted gay.

    Nice to see you back by the way.
     
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    LoL thanks just bored, nice to see you again
     
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    Regardless of sexuality, his cheating is wrong and he should own the responsibility and handle the consequences for that. As to the rest... yeah, others have said what I would already basically. (Downs urge to post something satirical that would be misconstrued grossly and taken out of context...)
     
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    That was wrong. I know a gentleman that is gay. He has a boyfriend. He is married. His wife knows of his lover. From what he told me she is accepting of the relationship. It is odd but this guy has chosen to honor his commitment as a husband and father in that he remains married. He says he loves his boyfriend and his wife. I do not know if he remains 'in the marriage bed.' That was a little to personal for me to ask.

    I have not talked to him in a bit so I do not know how things have worked out for him. Is it cheating if she knows of and according to him condones the relationship with another man? Is anything outside of the marriage cheating?

    I am not judging the morality of his relationship. I am simply offering questions as thoughts for us to ponder.

    The situation Britney describes is cheating and he has put his wife's health at risk. The same would be true if his multiple partners were women.
     
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    It's not cheating if the wife is ok with it.
     
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    What is amazing to me is how many married men like to have their ass fucked by another man. Add to that the number of men who use dildos up the ass whether wife applied or self'y. I like it but have never had a real dick up my ass but want to try. If done in secret, it is cheating. If done with wife's consent, it is not if share actions with wife.
     
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    What amazes me is how people bring up old posts!

    Especially when OP had been gone for 3 months.
     
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    H4H have a measure of tolerance and compassion.
    There is fuck all of interest here these days such that even I am resorting to reading stuff about arseholes of various kinds!
     
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    My givadam's broken!
     
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    In this case, the wife DIDN'T know, hence cheating. And I'd be pissed as hell knowing my spouse put my life in danger with all of the STIs running around. Did this guy just do it with one person or a number of different people? And if he did, that just raised the chance of STIs.
     
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    xx
     
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    Yeah, I don't think discussing some old threads is a great sin. Perhaps it could even lure Britneybutt back for a while if she peeks in here :)