gaging bjs

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  1. charlie-50

    charlie-50 New Member

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    will someone please explain the appel of the gaging blowjob to me i dont get it. i would like to hear from some you girls out there. any opinions welcome of course...cp...:cool
     
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    Outside of pornland i dont think there are many females that enjoy gaging on a guys cock.
    although i know some females that enjoy being able to take every inch in their mouths.

    Never having had a proper BJ ( a few failed attempts, but no more than the head went in thier mouths ) i cant really say what the appeal is. although i am longing to feel what a BJ really feels like.

    Oh and not all females that can deep throat gag ...as they learn how to relax and breath through the nose whilst performing on their SO.

    Oh and as a teen ( incase someone asks would i be willing to have the same done to me ) i have willingly as a young teen sucked and taken a 6" by 6" cock down my throat...
     
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    A guy wanting a woman to do something unpleasant/painful (for her) = Powertrip. Guys like this should have "asshole" branded on their foreheads as a caution to unsuspecting women. And somehow, these power-trippers always manage to pick the woman with self-esteem issues who will do anything to make her man happy. *sigh*

    Gag reflex varies from person to person, too. If my toothbrush goes a bit too far back when I'm cleaning my tongue, *RETCH*. I've got a keen gag reflex :p
     
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    Hehehe... :) well i know i cant be classed as an asshole ...as ive never had any female wish to give me a BJ ..
    I do know if a female was willing to , i wouldnt be laying on the pressure to make her take more...i like to belive im a considerate lover ...not a pressure driven one that seeks control or power.

    I am a subby hehehe.

    But maybe one day ill say a bit more about my past...i wasnt always a willing ten for sucking and taking dt....being a teen in an adult prison can be a real nightmare at times.


    But no female or male should feel pressured into doing something they dont want to do.

    Personaly for me , if i am with a female , i would do anything to please or pleasure them. :)
     
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    i can tell you from experience a bj GIVEN(not forced)by a woman who knows whats shes doing should just about give ya an orgasm powerful enuf to blow a hole in a wall...cp
     
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    I knew a bloke who liked this once. He would gently hold my head cos he liked to see me gag on his cock. He wasn't forceful or anything, but I wasn't comfortable gagging on it, and Bluesy you hit the nail on the head with your description, although I could't see it at the time.
     
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    Don't you just love hindsight? I wish I could exchange my foresight with my hindsight :p I've learned so many unpleasant things about the person I cared about and thought I knew so well after the relationship ended and I was no longer making excuses for their behavior. Bleah.

    OMG :( I can't even begin to imagine.
     
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    :( Sorry bluesy i wasnt meaning to upset you...
    Ive had a vareid life and past...not always pretty , but there where some really good times...ive been working on over comming the shadows lurking in my head over the years, beaten many of them...still have a few to defeat though. :)
    It is why i always try to be a nice friendly guy, and try my hardest to look for the silver lining...

    i can tell you from experience a bj GIVEN(not forced)by a woman who knows whats shes doing should just about give ya an orgasm powerful enuf to blow a hole in a wall...cp

    I dont doubt it would....just be awsome to experience the pleasure.
     
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    I have an above average sized cock, especially in girth, and most women don't bother with getting a little more than my glans in their mouths, which is fair enough. However, I have had a couple of experienced partners who voluntarily took the whole lot without any effort at all! It is an amazing thing to watch and be part of, to watch your whole decently-sized cock disappear like that for however long. And watch and feel her do it until, you know.

    All of these were spontaneous by women who knew what they were doing, and because they could do it effortlessly it was a big turn-on for me. One was a petite Chinese lass I met in Shanghai, although she was from Beijing. I'm sure Beijing girl had never encountered my size before, but it didn't faze her in the slightest. She was a talented young woman indeed.
     
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    6" by 6"??? what was it a square cock or somthin?
     
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    no lol not square...6 in length 6 in girth...far from square in looks

    meaning the entire length was 6 inches...and circumferance was 6 inches around.
     
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    from a personal point of view, I get a huge sense of power giving a BJ, and taking as much as I can. to look on the face of your SO who realises that you are enjoying what you are doing usually is enough, and its a great way to tease. but your SO, wont enjoy it so much if your not, not if he is a considerate lover. its a very useful way of changing my SO's mind too, if I really really want my own way, sinking to my knees usually gets it
    (smiles innocently)
     
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    I have a very tiny mouth, and I struggle to get a thick cock in my mouth. I am dissapointed if I can only get the glans in, I want to give as much pleasure as possible, I would hate to think my partner thinks I can't be bothered to get any more in my mouth.
     
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    I'm sorry but did you mean gag·ing?

    1. something, as a glove, thrown down by a medieval knight in token of challenge to combat.
    2. Archaic. a challenge.
    3. Archaic. a pledge or pawn; security.
    –verb (used with object)
    4. Archaic. to pledge, stake, or wager.

    or gag.ging?

    1. to stop up the mouth of (a person) by putting something in it, thus preventing speech, shouts, etc.
    2. to restrain by force or authority from freedom of speech; silence.
    3. to fasten open the jaws of, as in surgical operations.
    4. to cause to retch or choke.
    5. Metalworking. to straighten or bend (a bar, rail, etc.) with a gag.
    –verb (used without object)
    6. to retch or choke.
    –noun
    7. something put into a person's mouth to prevent speech, shouting, etc.
    8. any forced or arbitrary suppression of freedom of speech.
    9. a surgical instrument for holding the jaws open.
    10. Metalworking. a shaped block of steel used with a press to straighten or bend a bar, rail, etc.
     
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    I've only experienced "deep throat" once. I think it was mostly a personal challenge to the lady giving it. She bet me she could take my whole cock in her mouth/throat, and I bet she couldn't. She got as far as touching her nose to my abdomen, and we both agreed she won the bet.

    She also bet me I couldn't get her off orally. I won that bet.

    I think we both were happy to lose our bets. It was a first for each of us.
     
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    I absolutly love giving my guy oral and yes i do deepthroat him but not all teh time its more like, ill be happily sucking and licking away at his cock an dthen bam down i go and take him alll, just to hear his moans of pleasure when i do that is worth it all hehehe
    i like a lil gag everynow and then buts thats coz i like to be dominated so he forces me somtimes, but if i do need to come back up for ainr he isnt gonna stop me. he knows when im just playing "whore" and when i really cant breath so its good for us both and i just end up dripping at teh end of it all i love it heheh
     
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    I once saw the DVD titled "Throat Gaggers".

    It featured women being having their mouths and throats absolutely pounded with large thrusting cocks. And I mean pounded with furious action.

    Quite often the women were layed with their heads hanging over the bed presumably to easier access and deep penetration?

    I can honestly say that I found the whole DVD very disturbing.

    Because every one of the female participants appeared totally uncomfortable with the action. Including eyes appearing full of tears before being covered in cum. Including several actions of retching following withdrawl.

    I don't knock any women that are up for taking the full length orally.

    When it comes to blow jobs generally, I think the woman should control the action at her comfort level and what she wants primarily. For me the bloke, it's a bonus regardless :p
     
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    i find dvds liek that disturbing aswell. but i do it because i feel comfortabel with it , i know how much i can take an di kno my limits and so does he so its all good but when its violent then yer its not pleasent
     
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    yea

    well my gf likes to do it to me, and i dont mind it she says its a rush for her, idk i tell her not to hurt herself, idk she is just a freak like that i guess :p
     
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    my point exactly...cp