Hi all, I was wondering how much pressure is needed on the G spot for a woman to orgasm? Is it a mere contact/stroking or is a firm pressure needed? The reason I ask is because when I have an erection, the shaft is very hard, but the head is kind of soft. I heard that that's because they're different types of tissue and it's normal? And so I'm worried that the softness of the head would not be able to apply enough firm pressure - the kind of firm pressure that stiff fingers can give. Can anyone tell me if 1. it's normal for the head to be kind soft and 2. would it be able to stimulate the gspot enough? Thanks a lot!