Fun with threesomes.

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  1. eshawnt07

    eshawnt07 New Member

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    Me and my girlfriend wants to have a threesome. the only problem is I want a girl and she wants a guy. I always wanted to feel a nice wet pussy on my face while one is griping my dick and switch. she likes the idea of gettin fucked from behind while she is sucking a dick. I say we can just get another girl because shes bi. She always wanted to have her lips around a juicy clit while im diggin deep inside her. i just feel that with another guy all i can do is watch him get sucked and fuck her or fuck her pussy while i fuck her ass. What do yall think.
     
  2. AnonymousOne

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    I think you two need to work this out. Honestly, this is nothing more than a communication issue between the two of you and you both need to figure out what you want.
     
  3. Bluesy

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    I think the only fair thing to do is to have both a FMF and a MFM. Is there any reason why you guys can't agree to indulge each other's threesome fantasy?
     
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    i guess that makes sense but its more of a me issue then her. I feel more comfortable we start by a fmf but she always talk about a mfm.
     
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    Well why not tell her that you're more than comfy with a FMF and then see how that goes and talk about a MFM later. *shrugs* Like I said, communication and compromise.
     
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    This may sound bad, but get the FMF first in case she changes her mind if she does not like the MFM or has jealousy issues and does not want to do it again.The hard thing for you will be finding another women because they are the most sought after for most couples and there are tons of guys just waiting so she will have no problem.
     
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    Have you thought about having sex with another couple? That way you could both possibly get what you want. You aren't very imaginative if you think all you can do is watch. What's wrong with licking her while she sucks him or licking and sucking her tits while he eats her? Sounds like fun to me. Have her bend over and get fucked from behind while she sucks you. I could go on and on.

    Though it has always been a fantasy of mine (and every other guy) to have two women at once I would rather have a MFM threesome. I have always wanted to see my wife get fucked by another man and would really love to watch her give him one of her great blowjobs. She has no desire to see me with another woman and I can live with that. Unfortunately she doesn't want to have a threesome with another man either eventhough I think she would love it. She loves it when I have the cock shaped dildo in her while she sucks my cock. Making it the real thing would be fun. I would also love to lick her clit while she was getting fucked only because I know she would love the feeling.
     
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    we acually tried a couple swing. these ppls were so unimanageable. the guy was homophobic and they had a plot to get me drunk so they could have a threesome with her. we got hot and heavy (if u want to call it that) but i couldnt get into it as in hard. it gave me a bad impression of swinging.

    i am straight and very comfortable with my sexuality. i have fantasies about a mfm tho. i always wanted to suck on her clit will she getting fucked. or her sucking both of our dicks at once. one is him cunning in her and i fuck her after or him cummin in her mouth and she give me head. i dont have a problem with kissing her after the head. im just worried about him not being so comfortable. she really likes the idea of cum all on her and i love watchin bukake porn.

    I would love to do a double pen. but the couple thing seems fun with the right ppl. fuck each other girl in the same position. have open nudity and head contest.
     
  9. Bluesy

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    There you go. Any sort of threesome/swinging can be disastrous if you aren't diligent in selecting the right person/people to participate in it, so don't let your past experience prevent you from trying a foursome again.
     
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    You are absolutely right Bluesy.
    Me and the wife spent a lot of time looking over adds
    from couples, then writing a ton of letters just to get
    additional info.
    Then we would go to open swing parties hosted by couples
    that we both completely approved of.
    At every party their is extra females, (bi) so a FMF
    is easily arranged.
    I wanted a FMF of course I'm a man. But the wife was not comfortable
    with another Woman so I never got the pleasure of fucking one while
    they ate one another. Also I'm uncomfortable with another man
    so it was just one would fuck Her while one would get a BJ.

    Hiker
     
  11. BassDude

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    Heh heh...fun thread here. I recently went to a strip bar while out of town on business, got a lap dance from two girls, and told my wife about it when I came back (she asked, and I don't lie to her). I figured she'd be PO'd, but no...she was quite turned on by the idea of me being grinded on and hardened up by another woman (or two). She then asked me how I would feel if she were grinding on another man's hard-on while giving him a lap-dance or similar. I said "I would be totally turned on by it!" (and I would!). I think this is pretty cool...I get turned on by seeing her turned on (even if it's not by me), and she gets turned on by seeing me turned on (even if it's not by her). How cool and unselfish is that? :brow

    So, this has spawned some fantasizing about threesomes for us. She wants to go to a strip bar with me and watch me get a lap-dance. Cool. I told her that we needed to find or hire a guy that appeals to her that she can give a lap-dance to while I watch also. Cool. I'd love to see her have a few orgasm's from dry-humping another man's hard-on...even better if he comes too! Damn, brings me to rock-rock just thinking about it. There are images on the MFM side and FMF that turn us both on...I think describing to her how I could lick two pussies if they were lying on top each other made her just as hot as me thinking about her coming from grinding in another guy's lap. We've watched a couple threesome porn clips together, and have downloaded some full-length threesome porn movies that we plan to watch together soon. (We tried the other night, but didn't make it through the first few minutes!)

    I don't think either of us actually wants to have outright sex with someone else, but we're having a quite a good time fantasizing about it. Actually living out the lap-dance fantasies (me getting a lap-dance while she watches and her giving a lap-dance while I watch) seems like a pretty "safe" fantasy to live out, right? I think so...:D

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    Threesomes are something that myself and my SO have looked into before. We both ended up deciding, much like Bass seems to be suggesting, that it's much safer just to fantasize about it for now. Seems to work, gets both of us off, and we don't have to worry about not feeling comfy with another woman or man just yet. Will probably come back to the idea in the future, but for now we have no problem at all getting each other to come without the need of a third (or fourth ;-) ) person helping out.
     
  13. Bluesy

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    I have to agree :tup I can see how it would provide a little extra (and harmless) excitement for both partners...I could even see myself doing the same (if I were with the right guy, which makes all the difference in the world to me).

    ETA: Why not visit a male strip club, and then she can get a lap dance from a stripper, too :brow
     
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    This woman speaks the truth.
     
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    Actually, I suggested that...my wife doesn't actually like the muscle-bound no-neck homo-looking guys that typically work as male strippers. She gets turned on by the "boy next door" type...hairy chest, flat stomach, fit but not muscle-bound (luckily, that matches my physique! :D). Plus, I don't think there's any male strip clubs where we live anyway...that's why I thought about hiring a male entertainer to come to us. Or finding someone who might not be...um...dangerous to associate with...through some personals or something.

    This brings up a good question though...for a woman, what's the equivalent of getting a lap-dance in terms of getting turned on? If you get a "lap-dance equivalent" at a male strip club, what do the male strippers actually do (and maybe I can use this too...:brow)?

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    I did a threesome once, FMF, was a huge turn on. U should do it to sometime.
     
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    Whynot go to a regular strip bar, And let her get a lap dance
    from a Female Stripper.
    Would that turn you on Bluesy.

    Hiker
     
  18. Bluesy

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    If the stripper was my "type", hell yeah! But I do prefer men, so if a partner was going to get a lap dance from a stripper, I would most definitely be dragging his ass to the closest male strip joint so I could get a dance from a Chippendale wannabe :brow

    Oh, and btw, it would turn me on BIG TIME to watch a partner get a lap dance performed by a male stripper :phat :phat :phat (Here's to hoping that my future SO is at least a little bi!)