[Ask a Girl] Fucking a guy with a strap on

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  1. chasing_heels

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    Its something Ive been thinking about trying, not sure if its something common place without being looked at like a complete weirdo if I requested it.

    Would you do this if your guy asked
     
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    This is actually a major fantasy for a guy friend of mine. Unfortunately, he is too shy to tell the one he is with so it probably won't ever happen for him. I say if you trust the person you are with then tell her. It can be your secret and nobody can judge you. I would do it if my hubby asked.
     
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    I'm married to a guy who has asked and received OFTEN :)
    In fact, the strap on is within arms reach at all times from the bed just in case he gets a craving for it or I decide I want to surprise him with it.
     
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    Doesn't it stimulate the woman too? the dildo bumping against her clitoris?
     
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    Yes, Mittimer, please fill me in!
     
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    Yes, yes it does. Also, when I'm feeling extra good, I'll slip a bullet vibe into the pocket of the strap on so that it vibrates against my clit not to mention the constant grinding and bumpage of doing him.

    It's wonderful really.

    By the way, I don't mind answer personal questions in regards to this so feel free to ask away! :)
     
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    How did the subject come up? Did he suggest it or did you? My husband won't allow me anywhere near his ass for any reason.
     
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    The subject actually came up with me to be honest. I had used a strap on with a girlfriend of mine before getting with him. I playfully looked at him one day and said "Huh, would you ever let me fuck you with a strap-on?" and he said "yeah, I don't see why not" He's very comfortable in his sexuality and things like this don't bother him.

    We invested in quite a few different anal toys to start him out with an a great little strap on just for him. Then graduated up to feeldoes and the like.

    :)
     
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    I have joked about it with my husband many times and he usually says hell no and leaves the room. He is very shy and quiet and doesn't really talk about sex much. Opposites truly do attract.
     
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    I hope you sexy ladies are ever in the UK :D
     
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    I once had a girl 69 me while she wore one but I wouldn't let her fuck me. I think that's where my sucking off a TS fantasy comes from.
     
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    Same here!:lol
    My husband won't even allow a finger near his ass! I'm constantly messing with him saying I'm going to also.

    I wouldn't mind doing it if that's what he wanted.I'd try to be gentle :eyes
     
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    any guy who wants to fuck their wife in the ass should be willing to do it themselves. Part ofmy rule...never do something you're not willing to have done to you, give you perspective, and makes you think twice before forcing deep throat or too much up her ass with not enough lube or fucking her in the ass. Amzing how some guys expect their women to take it up the ass but if tehyw anna do the same they're like 'EW NO THAT"D HURT!" well how do you think they feel bozo!
     
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    In the voice of miss piggy,"I love you,Kermie!"
     
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    Just common sense i guess, why do to someone and not give them the right to do it to you????
     
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    I wish all men felt this way!!!!!!!
     
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    some guys are just self-centered and can't see how waht they do can hurt them, or understand how sometime feels til they feel it themselves, or just see their women as cumdumpsters
     
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    I've felt this way for a long time.
     
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    At least my rule says nothign about liking it lol
     
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    My husband has asked for this and we have done it a couple of times. I'll have to do it to him more often:) If you trust the person you are with and you really want to have her fuck you with a strap on you should just ask.
     
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