So, here's the deal... I'm a Scorpio, and as we all know, Scorpios have a rather strong sex drive. Well, over the years my wife and I have had a really good sex life, however, I have always wanted more. Last year, we discussed getting a "girlfriend" for us, which didnt really get off the ground. I also bought a few things (sex swing, bag of bondage goodies:spank, etc...) which primarily go unused. Matter of fact, I think the only things that get used are the anal toys, and I use those almost primarily on myself when she isn't around. The few times we used the swing, she wasnt into it, and she has never initiated getting "the bag" out to play. I don't know what to do... Any ideas?