So, I've got a female friend who I'm really close to. We're really alike and share the same sense of humour. We both have significant others, although she's gone through a bit of a rough period with hers due to some issues he's been having. She's the loveliest person with a true heart of gold, and he'd been treating her pretty appallingly. He's managed to turn it round though, and they're getting on better now. All through this, I've been a shoulder to cry on for her. Nothing's happened between us, ever, and I have no plans to change that, and I'm sure she doesn't either. We do flirt a little, but harmless really, just a little boost for our egos I guess. We've always joked that we'll run off together if things don't work out with our other halves. It's been a bit weird this past week though. She's been constantly on about how they haven't been having much sex lately, and she's always horny. She said about a particular sexual problem he's been having, and it was exactly the same as one that I've had before, so I offered to talk to her about it and what she could do to help him. This turned into a conversation about our sex lives, and the things we'd done in the past. It was pretty arousing listening to her as she went into a lot of detail, but she's always been pretty open about sex, so I took it with a pinch of salt. I mentioned to her that, as I've usually been more of a giver than a taker, and it usually takes me a long time to reach orgasm, that I've always concentrated on giving women plenty of orgasms. For example, on the night I lost my virginity, I never got the chance to come (after making the woman in question come for about the fifth time that night and telling her that I needed to, she turned me down flat; I've only been able to come regularly through penetrative sex in the past few years with my SO). I've always tried to be unselfish in bed. I gave my friend a few examples of the stuff I'd done in the past. My friend looked at me astonished, as I'd never told her anything like this before as I'm normally quite reserved about my private life. She said she was impressed and wished she'd had someone like that. I dropped her off (I was giving her a lift home), and there was a slightly awkward moment when we went to give each other an innocent peck on the cheek, as we often do, but it somehow very almost ended up as a kiss on the lips; inexplicably, I ended up kissing her on the nose! After thinking it over, I thought I may have come across as bragging a bit, so when I saw her the next day I apologised to her if it seemed as such. She threw me completely when she said that she'd had a very filthy and inappropriate dream about me the night before after what I'd told her about my sex life! She wouldn't give me the details, and I decided I wouldn't press her as it wouldn't have been the right thing to do. I did tease her a bit though, and asked her if it was a good dream. She smiled and said it was amazing. I did mention to her that I'd once had a dream about her before. I didn't elaborate much either, but as she'd always joked before when I'd complimented her on her figure that I'd not seen her naked yet, I said that I had, but only in my mind. She smiled and blushed. It doesn't put me off her as she's the closest friend I have outside of my relationship. I don't intend on doing anything to jeopardise what we've got, or that with my SO. I suppose I'm not seeking any advice, I just wanted to get this off my chest I guess. It's just been a bit of a headfuck for me, that's all.