Friends with Benefits?

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    asianboyxyz12 New Member

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    hey everyone, i'm a college student and I was wondering, what is the best way to go about asking someone if they want to be FWB? haha i feel like this is a stupid question but i'm curious
     
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    Wow, sometimes they are the best friends to have.....no commitments involved and everyone is satisfied!!! :) Best of luck!
     
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    I have a friend with benefits - very hot we do all sorts
     
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    If you feel you know them well enough.....just ask:eyes
    Worst case scenario is they'll say no....:shrug

    Oh'....and welcome to SF too'....:welcome
     
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    I don't think that you can really ask the question like that, but you can find out in conversation. I've had relationships that were purely sex and they just happened. We had sex, it was fun so we did it again, and again, and we talked about what we were looking for so we knew that neither of us were interested in dating.
     
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    what she said ^....but ya i mean just ask right?
     
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    Oh yes you can ask a question like that !!!!! My husband worked up the courage (after many weeks) to ask a female friend of his to be our threesome partner. While she was flattered, she was not comfortable with the idea so she declined. We are both in our 40's and cant imagine it being more difficult for a young dude like you, with such a sexually open generation, just ask !!!!
     
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    It works the other way around. You have a friend, you're not in love and you're not looking for relationships, but you get on well together. You've already had sex, probably a one-night stand, and you ask her if she wants to see you again on the same basis; just some good sex once in a while. It's different to boyfriend-girlfriend, but the relationship has to be there before the sex, and before the friends with benefits too.
     
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    just ask. if she says no, don't pressure it. you never know, maybe your friend is thinking similar just afraid to ask :)
     
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    Just ask her it doesn't hurt to ask. Like everyone else said what is the worst that can happen she says no. You are young and have plenty of years to find someone.

    I have two friends who I am in FWB we see each other when we can.