[Ask a Girl] Freak magnet

Discussion in 'Ask a Guy/Girl' started by north, May 14, 2010.

  1. north

    north New Member

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    ok here goes...
    I've only become aware of this recently and it's not exactly 'a big deal' as I'm in a happy relationship with a wonderful man but wanted to get everyone's take on it anyway, both guys and gals alike.

    Although I'm 100% faithful, I do enjoy the odd flirtation when the situation and chemistry are right. The problem is, the few men I'm attracted to don't seem to know I exist, whereas the hoards of men I'd cross the street to avoid seem to be drawn to me like freakish moths to a freak flame.

    I'm young and (I think) quite ok looking. I'd also consider myself rather "normal" in every other respect, so why am I invisible to the interesting prospects and irresistable to the undesirables?

    Is it that men are instinctively more interested in women who aren't into them? What is wrong with me?
    :coocoo

    Can anyone else relate?
     
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    I found when I was single I went for women that were way above my level but that was because I enjoyed the chase, once they had given in I was not interested so left them alone?
     
  3. Northside

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    Guys interested in someone who isn't into them? I think it works both ways. A lot of people just want what they can't have. It's human nature. As a side note, some years back I saw a girl who was drop dead gorgeous. I never thought I'd have a chance with her, but I had to talk to her. She was pleasant enough, we started dating, and long story short, six months later I couldn't get rid of her fast enough.