ok here goes... I've only become aware of this recently and it's not exactly 'a big deal' as I'm in a happy relationship with a wonderful man but wanted to get everyone's take on it anyway, both guys and gals alike. Although I'm 100% faithful, I do enjoy the odd flirtation when the situation and chemistry are right. The problem is, the few men I'm attracted to don't seem to know I exist, whereas the hoards of men I'd cross the street to avoid seem to be drawn to me like freakish moths to a freak flame. I'm young and (I think) quite ok looking. I'd also consider myself rather "normal" in every other respect, so why am I invisible to the interesting prospects and irresistable to the undesirables? Is it that men are instinctively more interested in women who aren't into them? What is wrong with me? :coocoo Can anyone else relate?