Found wife's sex tapes and would like insight

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  1. Mikeman

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    The term "married up" applies to me if it's ever been applicable to anyone. My wife takes care of herself very well and is a sexually oriented person. She embraced her sexuality long ago and as a result, has had quite a few encounters. She's been open and honest with me over the years about her experiences whenever I've asked. I find it thrilling to hear of her past exploits as I've had very little myself.

    I gained first hand perspective a couple weeks ago when I found a series of sex tapes on a hard drive. I've watched them numerous times and like them quite a bit. I'm intrigued as to why I'm so excited by the videos. I feel like most husbands would be angry she's kept them in secret. I'm here to get opinions from others and explore this revelation further. Thank you and nice to meet you.
     
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    You said she was a sexually open person so chances are she had fun making the tapes and is proud of them. You also said you enjoyed hearing of her past sexual encounters so she probably had no reason to get rid of them.
     
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    Found some films. Wow.

    Time to make some new ones.
     
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    Sometimes people don't know what turns them on until they experience it. There are a lot of people out there that get off on watching their partner with other people. I'd tell her you found them and how they make you feel. Maybe the next step would be for her to make another one knowing you're watching or possibly watch her with another man in person.
     
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    I agree... talk to her about It!
     
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    Welcome to SF xo
     
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    Maybe bring up sex tapes in general one night and then work in if she ever made one? As you said she has been pretty open with you all this time, so maybe she'll just tell you about them at that point. That is assuming you've never asked that question before. I'd say having her show you (thinking it was her idea) is a better first route to go than approaching it from a "snooping/found your sex tapes" angle . Just my 2 cents!
     
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    I recently moved 900 miles away from my bf. We both agreed that we should start seeing other people since we both know long distance relationships are very difficult. He started seeing a younger woman right away and I must admit when we talk on the phone it's very erotic to hear him talk about what he has done sexually with his new gf. I constantly drill him with questions about what she does with him. I saw him last weekend and I think we had the best sex ever.
     
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    welcome and have fun here
     
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    imagine the fun you could have if you watched them with her...
     
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    Brilliant quote, take this advice.