Foreplay

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by FlirtyChick, Sep 2, 2008.

  1. FlirtyChick

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    What is your favorite thing to do to your partner to get him/her excited? What do you like done to you? Do you use tongues, lips, fingers, toys?? Do you like to kiss? What gets you wet and dripping, and what gets your partner wet and dripping?
     
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    As a fellow blogger said "any stool in a bar fight".

    The whole arsenal gets deployed: Tongue, fingers, varying techniques, kissing, cuddling, touching. I do think it's important to vary things up a bit depending on mood/setting/etc.
     
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    The thing that makes me instantly going and wet is the way he kisses me, holds my face and has the sweetest most passionate kisses, Instant turn on for both.
     
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    Each time its different,one time it may be the way she kisses me, another time the way she hints at what she wants, sometimes we will watch some porn together.......but who am I kidding, most anything she does turns me on....a definite turn her on by me is to massage and caress her body with a scalp massage, nothing lights her fuse as fast as me massaging her.
     
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    Actually, I find that dry humping works just fine to get my partner in the mood. It doesn't take much. Usually all I have to do is look at him the right way and that's enough.
     
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    I think...

    ...that is part of the magic of sex; when that switch comes on, when it doesn't matter what either one of your does, it's just electric. I guess there is some sort of general idea, in terms of what people actually do, but, I don't think of it in terms of a step 1, step 2, step 3 kind of thing. That, to me, is stepping away from the magic and into some sort of rote thing, like a dance that has actual steps instead of doing what feels good and finding one another's rhythm.

    I mean, there is not one single spot on my body that doesn't feel good when a woman touches me and there is not one single spot on her body that I don't wanna touch. So, from there, I mean, again with the magic, you're touching each other somewhere, kissing, rubbing, pinching, and then you just kinda find each other and move on as each new spot just starts aching to feel one another.

    So, if there is an actual rule of thumb, it would be akin, I suppose, to a 7 course meal; don't start with dessert; work up to it. Don't go right for each others crotch. :lol

    Now, that's when time isn't an issue and the mood is there to take time. Sometimes, just getting right to it works. BAM. :dgrin

    Sex is a living, breathing thing.
     
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    I totally agree with LP...the mechanics really don't matter that much, it's the feeling behind it. If I know that my wife is hot for me, I get turned on. My actions and her actions then follow our intentions for each other. Sometimes long and drawn out is very nice, sometimes a quickie is just the right thing. It doesn't matter to me what we do, being touched anywhere by her feels good to me. It always ends up a little different too, which is also nice. And I love to subtley seduce that woman. (And I love to be teased and seduced by her.) When we get our daughter to bed, she's usually ready to pounce on me, or wants me to pounce on her.

    BD
     
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    I'll usually start a few hours beforehand. I'll casually press against her bum or give her a passing peck on the neck, whatever gets her to smile and just start considering the idea of sex.
     
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    You are so damned sexy!
     
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    You are so hot I cannot help it!!:brow
     
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    I'm variable :brow
     
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    Ditto that. :brow

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    So...question...does mind-fucking someone count as "foreplay"? Verbally teasing them, dropping little innuendo's that make them think about having sex with you. Actually, I suppose that's more along the lines of seduction. Hmm...maybe a new thread!

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    I like to give my hubby a full body massage sometimes as foreplay. All of that touching really gets him going. Include kissing, touching, talking seductively, and licking and you get the idea.
     
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    I start with deep kissing and licking her lips slowly tonguing my way to her ear. She loves to have her ear nibbled on. I work my way down from her ear to her nipples and lick and nibble until she is squirming before moving to her bellow button. From there it is to the promised land. I take my time and cherish every inch of her body.
     
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    "The kids are in bed."
     
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    BD, I had to read that a couple of times to figure out what was going on there lol...

    As for the topic, I've recently noticed that deep and prolonged kissing is what gets my g/f super wet.

    You can always find out new things about someone you have been with for a long time, and many times it is something simple that you took for granted.

    We always kissed and such, but last weekend I decided to kiss her for a good 20 minutes straight before I did anything else.. then as I rubbed her clit and touched her all over, I kept kissing her... then during sex I kept kissing her.

    From beg. to end, my mouth was off her lips for maybe a total of 30-60 seconds... the whole thing lasted about 30 minutes give or take...

    She was so wet, her juice was dripping onto the sheets and making a puddle. When she came she came as hard as I can ever remember...

    I tried the same thing the other day and she soaked the sheets again and cummed just as hard.

    It's funny because you try all of these things to get your girl off and most of them do - but something as simple as kissing is what gets my girl floating away in her own juices.
     
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    :lol Umm...let me rephrase that! :lol "After we get our daughter to bed IN HER ROOM, MY WIFE is usually ready to pounce me, or wants me to pounce on her (MY WIFE, that is)." ;)

    Why do I now have images from the movie "Vacation" whirling in my head? :lol
     
  20. Fliteskates

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    I know you loved my post about being a sickie in the bedroom - but that crosses the line bro lol

    j/k obviously