foreplay: Striking matches

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by curious2500, Mar 20, 2007.

  1. curious2500

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    As part of my foreplay habits and during episodes of fantasy, or prior to masturbation, I like to light matches. This really gets me horny. My wife likes it, anybody else into playing with matches?
     
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    Uhm, nope. Matches= sulfer which leads to the closing off of my throat, and trouble breathing. NOT a good combination.
     
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    It is not for everyone
     
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    Wow. I've never even heard of that. Interesting. But, no. It's not a turn on for me.
     
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    oooh how interesting...

    must confess I adore the smell of lighted matches and the thought of someone striking one in a pitch black room and then holding it near to my face is a very erotic thought indeed...

    now where did I put that box of matches...lol

    makes a nice change from the same old same old


    thanks for lighting my fire!!!

    *strikes match and lights silver candle positioned in front of her*
     
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    I hate the smell of sulfur, so I guess it's not for me. But kudos to you for recognizing that you enjoy it, and taking advantage! :)
     
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    I like watching fire burn. I also like watching moving water- fluid dynamics......never really associated it with sex. But hell, I'm going to get a few books of matches and see what all the fuss is about tonight. I'll report back on the results. :)
     
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    Would you mind explaining a little better as
    to what you do with the matches that has to do with sex or fore play.

    Hiker:sf
     
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    Fire,,,,water,,,,,the elements.....

    S E N S U A L........
     
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    I was wondering too. I love the smell of matches but can't think how i would use them for sex.
     
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    I guess he sticks the matches in his wife's nipples and lights them. Blow them out like a birthday cake candle. Lmao
     
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    Cuddling snuggling, touching each other making love , in front of a log fire, thats a blaze i can see as a sensual act,
    but striking a match for a turn on, its defenetly new to me ......
     
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    Anything can be sensual, sexual to anyone....

    Some people find hitting each other, peeing on each other etc etc sexy or sensual.....

    Opening oneself up to others' perceptions of things is indeed useful when it comes to understanding the workings of the mind........

    It makes life more "colourful"

    I suppose........

    :)

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    SexyScorp you make sex sound so "colourful"! My wife and I love to light about 30 or so candles around our whirlpool and have a glass of wine or two! The light for the fires always seem to highlight everything I have ever seen in her.....ahh.....I need to pick up some more candles on the way home!
     
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    It's interesting that someone brought up the idea of fire as being sensual. I recently found an old railroad lantern from the 1920's in my parents garage. I spent a few hours grinding all the rust off of it, and cleaning it up, then applied some nice matte black heat-resistant paint to it. The best part of it? The globe is red! Since kerosene stinks when burned indoors, I got some liquid paraffin, filled it up, and lit it. Sitting on a tall dresser, it lightly cloaks the room in red light. I like it! The only thing is, since the paint is new, it has to 'set' so for the next few lightings, it's going to put off a paint thinner smell! I figure one night I'll just let it burn for a few hours outside (just have to make sure no one swipes it, the thing's an antique). I heard you can buy essential oils from Whole Foods or someplace like that and mix it with the liquid paraffin, to infuse a nice smell into the room.

    I don't know how relevant this is to lighting matches to get horny..but hey, whatever works I guess? Candles get expensive, I'm trying to get into other liquid-paraffin powered lighting- even if I have to weld some up myself!
     
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    Ok. So the matches probably won't charge me sexually. But it did remind me of the times we played with candle wax. Not too hot, of course... :) So I'm thinking of reviving that activity.
     
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    Ooohh yeah

    Red candle wax being dripped dripped dripped on the body....i love that too P :)
     
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    Personally, I get nothing out of firing up matches.... BUT Thorn is fascinated with playing with matches/flames, etc. And so is our son.

    I can't tell you the number of times I've had to call one or both of them down for striking matches, and seemingly getting some sort of inert charge out of watching them burn, or lighting something off of them. I suppose it could translate into a sensual thing, if they thought of it that way :shrug

    .... now, I'm going to have to figure out a way to NOT let Thorn see this thread! :whoa
     
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    playing with matches seems to, raise the anticipation
     
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    No need to weld any up.
    Just go to your local hardware store they have plenty
    of kerosene lanterns.

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    And you have not said exactly what it is you
    do with the matches.