foreplay before penetration ???

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  1. jess09

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    does every couples have foreplay before penetration ? or does some get right to penetration. and how long does your foreplay and penetration last ?????
     
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    Sometimes I just say "Wanna fuck?". He never says no! :lol I'll admit I lack patience sometimes.
     
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    Sometimes we do. Sometimes we don't. Honestly, the duration depends.
     
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    So you guys just sometimes go right to the penetration without being aroused ???
     
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    I guess I'd say I'm mentally ready, thus physically ready. We go straight to penetration without him physically pleasuring me first, yes. That is how things ALWAYS start with my lover. No foreplay at all. And I love it...
     
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    But it goes in easily and there is no pain ? this must be tight no ?
     
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    i would say we have penetration, then foreplay. or the penetration is the foreplay. we savor the initial thrust, and then warm up to each other. or we just go at it from the get go!
     
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    sometimes it's not comfortable, and it's kinda enjoyable to me. but there have been times that it was just so dry that there was just no way.
     
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    if we're in the mood, (for example, if we haven't seen eachother in a while) sometimse we just go for it, but we usually have foreplay... it really depends on the day
     
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    We just about always have foreplay. Once in a while my wife will look at me and say 'lets just do it'. Usually if a little foreplay doesn't get her going pretty quick, she'll jump right into penetration. It's all good to me! :)
     
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    We always have foreplay. I play with her clit for a while and then lick it until she cums. Then she spreads her legs wide open for me to penetrate. The only problem is lots of times she is so wet that i can feel anything. I must admit that she is getting tighter she we don't have sex that often. I guess that is one fringe benefit.
     
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    Usually we have foreplay of some kind.Sometimes it's quick,just to warm up,other occasions,we take our time.We do,however, have our moments,for example, where we'll be just sitting there...watching tv,he gets a hard-on and seconds later our clothes are off and we're doing the 'dirty'.I get aroused by his wanting to just 'do me' randomly,therefore it doesn't hurt---the turn on is stimulation in itself.It's all mental.
     
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    As a bigger-built man girth-wise, even why my SO doesn't want foreplay and just wants me in her, we have to have some extral arousal for her because unless she's really, really ready, I literally don't fit.

    I don't like the term foreplay, sex starts with kissing and holding and hugging and it gradually gets more explicit and I generally go down on her until she comes and then we move onto penetration in whatever position. So sex starts at a point and finishes at a point, and the duration may be shorter she really wants a quickie or it may be longer if it is a lazy Sunday morning and we're taking our time. And it doesn't always follow the same script, other than to say some sort of extra arousal is necessary beyond her horniness.

    Jess has asked lots of questions, and to be honest there isn't a one and only answer. Some women have said sometimes yes, they go straight to penetration and I've said no, never because I'm bigger. Jess, you will have to take this advice and work out how it applies to you, your partner and your situation.
     
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    Usually we watch a DVD(group sex, orgy, DP ,cum shot) while we masterbate together as part of foreplay. Then we either have oral sex or intercourse. Sometimes before we go to bed, my wife will say I want you to fuck me now with your big dick. Then we go to bed and start fucking immediately or I will say lets fuck. The quickies are fun too.
     
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    Well..sometimes if we're both just really horny, like after we've both watched some porn or something, then we'll go for it sans foreplay. However, it's usually necessary, and it really doesn't feel good for either of us if I'm not wet enough.

    I consider foreplay an integral part of having sex.
     
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    P&B I consider watching a porn movie together foreplay.

    back to the question.

    We most always have foreplay sometimes hours of it,
    when we go out for the evening and I tell her she can wear a short skirt
    sans panties and bra that contitutes foreplay because she loves
    showing off and I will take quiet a few feels along the way.
    and she knows that we will be fucking sooner or later. mabey
    in the closest city park (weather permitting) in the car, or just anywhere
    or at anytime along the way. But I always do it right when we get home
    because she just gets sopping wet when I treat her like a whore.:cool
    :cool
     
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    I need to add that we don't go out that much since moving to the bible belt area of northern Indiana,
    But foreplay is anything you do to get her (and yourself) hot before
    fucking her. Sometimes that can start after dinner while she washes dishes
    by walking up behind her and playing with her tits and ass, Just anything
    to let her know that you are interested in having sex.
    Then that leads to oral and I have a thousand ways to do that and
    when I start their is no stopping till she has 2-3 orgasms.
    Then its time to fuck, (I'm just a hillbilly so I guess fucking is the same as insertion isn't it).
     
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    We always had foreplay before intercourse. She can't get off from penetration so I always made sure she had an orgasm via manual stimulation (with lots of lube) before penetration.
     
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