Forced and obey

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by ky1girl, Apr 2, 2015.

  1. ky1girl

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    Ok here it is... I want to watch husbands forcing their wives doing anything. It turns me on so much. Problem I can't find real videos like that. Terrible I know, I like drunk girls getting used to. I would like it happen to me. But I'm not into like the bondage and stuff like that. I hope I'm not the only one.
     
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    my ex was into being pushed into stuff. its natural andsexy.
     
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    It's the loss of control and being possessed that turns you on; a very common fantasy ;)
     
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    Yes, sluttyfairy has the same fantasies.... I think many have that desire, but few are "in touch" with it. You may also enjoy being restrained.. Without the slapping , lashing stuff...
    I never understood it, until I met her. And I'm still learning how to let myself go, and give her what she wants. It's tough for most guys , especially if you've been raised to be respectful of women. It can be hard to treat her like a slut in the bedroom.... But with open communication , it can be done and enjoyed by both parties.
     
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    It's a fine line between forced, yet consented, action and rape, which is probably why you can't find any "real" videos of it - chances are they would be considered as rape/molestation?
     
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    When the boyfriend and I were new in our relationship, I felt sometimes that he was "too polite." But I've been helping him break that down. When I get drunk, I don't quite get usable in that way, but the boyfriend knows when I'm vulnerable from an overpowering horniness. He has learned how to take advantage of me at those times.
     
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    Yes yes, , that's the hardest part for the man.., learning to not be too polite. It's not as easy as it sounds...
     
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    I'm constantly getting reprimanded for not being "forceful" enough or initiating as much as she wishes I would. We're working on this, and on me getting the timing right for Taking Charge and such.

    Seems like a strange problem for a guy my age, but the truth.

    What can I say? I was raised by a collective of very Strong & Independent Women (mom, sisters, grandma, aunts -- all of them), where if you weren't 110% respectful and dignified you'd get sharply and swiftly put in your place.
     
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    So nice to know there are women out there like you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
     
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    I knew a gal that used to like to fight it really hard. All the physical exertion made her really horny. She would cum multiple times. Anymore that would be called rape. How would a guy know that is how she wanted to play? How do you know if NO really means NO?

    It's a scary world out there.
     
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    We have a "safe word," so "No" means "More, please--you're doing it right."
     
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    So true. a woman who is strong and can stand for herself, won't take shit, but wants to be told what to do in bed, to feel he has control when it comes to sex, to feel a bit used to please her guy.
     
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    My bf and I have sex and he will just take it how ever he wants and I love it
     
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    For me, I have to hit a certain level of arousal, then I'll almost growl with a characteristic look (he says) and just say "use me! Take what you want." It can be so empowering to give up control, if that makes any sense. But for me, I need to chose to give up control. He's not complaining though...