For the guys who don't get enough...

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Sir Kill Jerk, Aug 31, 2006.

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  1. Sir Kill Jerk

    Sir Kill Jerk New Member

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    My GF (to my surprise) made an offer to me last night.

    She previously complained that I don't initiate sex enough. I told her the reason for this was because I was tired of being turned down if she's not in the mood. I explained to her that my libido wasn't the same as hers and that I want sex at least every other day. She then offered me sex OR a blow job every other night in return for a 20 minute back rub twice a week.

    This may be one of the most one-sided trades in history :penisdance
     
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    It sounds like you guys are doing great in the communication department. You better, in my opinion, make sure those are some loving and sensual massages.

    Remember the key, women want to feel loved before they give out sex, whereas men tend to see sex as a way of showing love.
     
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    Why not break out a few marguaritas, and a bottle of warm oil
    and give her a very sensious back (and everwhere else) rub.
    Of course do her back, sholders. temples, and then on to her ass and legs
    then turn her over and do her tits, (dont touch the nipples yet) her face,
    belly and legs very slow and softly, eventually she will guide your
    hand to her pussy. Well being an adult (I hope) you should know what to do
    for the rest of the evening.
     
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    I would definately make that trade with my husband!!!
     
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    I understand; I have been accused of not initiating sex often enough too. I told her that I used to but got hurt from being turned down(too tired, gotta get up early, stomach problems, etc.) so I just decided to get rolling if she shows some interest. That got be in trouble for not being the aggressor often enough. Damn you just can't win...she claims to want it ALOT but I just can't figure out WHEN she wants it. As usual, it's all my fault!
     
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    Thank God I'm not the only one experiencing this!!!!!
     
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    Believe me; you're not! :(





    But I wouldn't thank God for it!

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    Sir Kill Jerk, you got the best trade I've ever heard of! Keep that woman!!!
     
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    That sounds like a good trade off.

    I'm sort of in a similar situation although I'm the female who is the one constantly trying to initiate sex and my boyfriend keeps turning me down!! What on earth is up with that??? I've posted on here before about my frustrations with him and it still hasn't gotten any better. I just don't know what to do about it anymore! I don't think offering him back massages will do me any good! :ugh
     
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    Not sure normally guys are always ready :eek
     
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    That's not really accurate. Sometimes women have the greater sex drive.
     
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    I'm been told by several women that I give a great massage ... Now if only someone would offer me that deal.
     
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    Come rub on me, A1!~
     
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    To quote Dave Chapelle:

    "God Dayumn!"
     
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    (I'm not sure if that's a good response or bad...... )
     
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    Surprised...
     
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    I don't think that's a good deal.

    It's a pragmatic deal, sure, but turning you down enough that you don't feel like initiating sex much and then offering you a "deal" to get sex under certain conditions sounds like there are some significantly deeper and more fucked-up issues in your relationship.

    I don't know you, so I don't know that I want to offer solutions that you aren't asking for, but I've been there, and there was a lot of bullshit going on that stemmed from her not taking me seriously, which in part I deserved.

    Good luck.
     
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    I can think of lots of reasons, but most of them are not very positive..., sorry
     
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    It is true that its a turn on when the guy starts the sex. I know i like guys who are real agressive and act like they want it so bad its driving them crazy. That is so hot.
     
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    i think that you got one hell of a deal, i would def. take that in a heartbeat, just make sure that you show her that you are very happy about it and dont complain about giving her massages and you should be fine, just make sure that you guys keep talking and making each other happy
     
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