Ok, this keeps happening to my wife and I and we really hate it...so this is kind of a, "knock it off," but I am interested in feedback... We go to swingers clubs and especially on-prem clubs...We try and go on couples and single women only nights and heres why...the other night we went with a female friend of ours and a couple of other platonic friends that we hang out with but don't play with...we didn't realize they were letting single guys in...we decided to stay anyway because we wanted to go and don't get many opportunities to get out... So after a few hours we were feeling into it and headed to the play room, we looked back and there was a line of 6 guys following us...we headed into one of the more private rooms with a curtain and closed it...they stood outside in a line like we were going to invite them in, as our platonic friends described. I guess they got im patient because just as we were about to really get into it the curtain flew open and there were 4 dicks, literally staring at us...so the mood was killed and we got dressed after only 10mins of play and left...an hour later we decided to leave the club and had to find a spot to sit that was difficult to see into or get into because the 4 guys multiplied to 8-10...finally having enough we left the club... Outside the club we were STILL being followed by 2 of the guys and my wife was getting propositioned by one of them to let us take him to our place...we said no, then no again, finally I told him to get the fuck out of here because we can only say it nicely so many times!! My point is...WHY DO YOU SINGLE GUYS INSIST ON FOLLOWING COUPLES AROUND LIKE HOMESICK PUPPIES?????? You WILL NOT catch a good show or be invited to join because you will just piss off the couple...believe it or not most women and couples do not find you jerking off anywhere near as hot as another couple or a woman going at it...in fact most of us find it rather nasty or stupid. if you want to hang out in the play room to watch, we don't have a problem with it. Sit on one of the couches on the side, stay quiet and just watch. If you want to be invited to join in...dress nice, look good, be respectful to the couples, be friendly but not obsessivly annoying, and let the couple come to you... Here is the truth 2 out of 10 swinging couples are interested in a single guy...and thats being generous...most couples are either looking for a woman or another couple(not a couple of guys lol), most women in those types of clubs are looking for a couple(again not a couple of guys)...there are couples interested in single guys whether its watching or participating...however if you want to be involved with a couple, you have to let them approach you, because of the couples in the club looking for a guy they are in the minority...also most clubs now are starting to throw you out and ban you after a single complaint because it is getting so bad...and also understand, no is no in those clubs... We want to have fun, we want to be watched and watch, but if you piss us off we aren't going to do anything... also please use your common sense...we are in our late 20's early 30's...if you are a single guy who is in his late 50's and looks it...your old enough to be our father, the biggest turn off you can imagine. Just stay back and don't say or do anything to the couple and you'll get a lot more then you thought you would... If we weren't being followed and creeped out so bad that night we wouldn't have closed the curtain and found a place to hide...the amazing 3some that happened in our house would have happened there!