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Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by lil_demon18, Apr 11, 2012.

  1. lil_demon18

    lil_demon18 New Member

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    My hubby Really wants a 3some but I feel insecure about but we both want to spice things up. Anyone else feel this way and end up trying it?
     
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    are you male?
     
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    Dnt u see the pic? I'm female he's male.
     
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    or is there more than one of you inside your head? because youre also starting a social group for bi women? but your asking our opinion about 3somes?

    are you ok? because im a little confused here...your threads and posts are odd....
     
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    ok..if your a couple you should change your gender from male to couple to avoid confusing people....like me ...lol
     
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    Well if there's a pic of me nd my hubby so it shouldn't b confusing.
     
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    that would explain why your posts seem like they were from 2 different people...haha
     
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    we dont all look at the photos.....no big deal, i got it now...lol
     
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    the "couple" thing is kinda new here....if you guys wouldnt mind , just identify which one were talking to, so we know how better to respond to you guys...
     
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    as for my 2 cents on the matter....i would wait a bit..talk about it some more get a little more input from couples that have successfully done it. (im sure many have tried and failed, and a great few have done it and stayed together in the aftermath...) mostly make sure , exactly...what is acceptable to both of you.....its not something you wanna do without discussing the ground rules ....
     
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    Correct you (OP) both need to know the boundries of what is acceptable and what is not.
    However as you said in your other thread you would be jealous of your man touching another woman, then really your looking only for FFM, where the girls play together but your man only with you. You both must be clear on that and the 3rd party must be clear on that and accept it.

    You need to talk this through very carefully, hows your man going to feel just watching for 1/2 of the time ?
    As I said Jealousy is a dangerous thing in swinging, think...think...think.
     
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    If either of you are insecure about a 3rd party then don't do it and the opposing SO ShOuLd respect that.. if they don;t then that specifically should be explored for a problem.. just my 2 cents..
     
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    I agree with ttoomake her smile. Insecurities can be harmful too a relationship especially in this type of situation.