There's a guy at work with whom I exchange flirty looks and smiles every chance I get. He's one of those unassuming guys, with a presence and attitude that makes swoon at the mere sight of him walking by. Lately, we are both also doing things to run into each other, even if we don't really get to exchange more than a few words or looks. One day last week, I found myself wishing that he'd just make a move so we can get things started. And then I realized that I could be the one making a move because we're both adults and we seem to be interested in each other. I've always been that way, I expect the guy to approach, and I've never really questioned it. I want to change this. Take a little more control of the situation, and I'm thinking of ways to get closer that aren't obvious because I'm not that upfront. I'm interested in knowing how you ladies and gentlemen handle situations like this, and if you wish anything was different from a gender roles perspective. Also, if you have any ideas for me, feel free to share! PS: I know there's a big debate about dating people from work, but that's a risk I'm willing to take.