There's a man at my son's school who really does it for me. I have never felt so excited by the thought of anyone. Anyway, I got talking to him and after a while it was obvious we were both thinking the same thing. I sent him an e-mail and he indicated that we would do something about it but when the timing was better. That was now a few weeks ago. Should I make the next move or is the ball in his court? How do I know if he's gone cold on the idea or if he's just not good at making tricky moves under the circumstances (he's married too)? I don't want to look desperate! I have been married 15 years and have only misbehaved once ten years ago so this is not something I would usually do.