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  1. wetpantygirl

    wetpantygirl New Member

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    me and my girlfriend enjoy sex 4-5 times a week we both make each other orgasm and she plays the male role we were watching a dvd girl on girl and one was fisting the other then she said she would like to try it on me i love anal sex but i don't know about taking a fist in my ass any replies are greatly appreicated
     
  2. heelfetish

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    *moved to a more appropriate section*

    Fisting is something incredible that is physically possible, but only between willing, prepared, and trusting partners. It isn't something you just 'do'. You work you way up to fisting slowly.

    For anal fisting, all the regular tips for anal preparation apply, however are even more important. The penetrator should have clean hands, and clean, well-trimmed fingernails. Latex gloves are pretty much a must with anal fisting. The receiver must be willing, relaxed, and well lubed. Communication and trust are of utmost importance! Don't just got for the whole hand. Work gradually up to it. Start with one finger, then 2, then 3. Then to toys, progressively getting larger.

    If at any time you encounter pain, stop!

    Eventually your muscles will be relaxed enough to allow you to take your partner's hand in your ass. However, don't be disappointed if you don't reach your goal the first time, or even the first several times. I've been into anal penetration for years, but I still can't take anything that large in my ass.

    But before you even start you have to decide for yourself if this is something you even want to try.

    Good luck!
     
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    i practised fisting with a bisexual woman, not anal, but one time i had two hands up her vagina.. took hours to get there, and loads of lube..
     
  4. heelfetish

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    I've gotten most of my hand inside my wife. Like Doberman it took a long time (Over an hour), and lots of Astroglide. ;) A woman's hands are considerably smaller than my own, but even still, it will take some patience.
     
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    It is something I have never thought of trying.All I can think of is pain.
    They say if you've never tried something,try it and you might like it.I like my sex life just the way it is.I don't need to be fisted.But I do commend all of you who have tried it.And good for you if you succeed and like it.
     
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    Me and my girlfriend have tried many a time, to no avail. I have large hands and we have managed to get to my knuckles and almost in, and considering their size thats saying something!! However, I dont think weve ever actually talked about wanting to do 'fisting,' many times she just begs to have more inside of her and im more then willing to comply ;)
     
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    As usual HF made an excellent reply that was to the point so I just wont try to add anything.

    Hiker
     
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    My wife and I have been fisting each other for a few years now, she has at times got both her hands in my ass, like others have said befor it takes a lots of time and plenty of lube and a lot of care.
     
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    Ouch!!!
     
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    Both hands??? Does an ass go that big?
     
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    Fisting is a kinky pastime and not really a pleasurable
    experience for the receiver.

    Information sourced from various locations!

    Watched a vaginal fisting last Saturday night,
    on a woman from 3 different guys, she said she
    did it only because she could, but not for self
    pleasure.
     
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    Can you say it's not really a pleasurable experience for the receiver? I admit that it's not something I'd find pleasurable but chances are there would be someone in a world of 7 billion people who do receive it for pleasure?

    It sounds like a bit of a blanket statement to me?
     
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    My wife would disagree.
     
  14. SexyScorp

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    I was thinking that was quite a sweeping
    statement too Heel...

    How does anyone know what others think
    is pleasurable or not....????

    Pleasure is relative...some like to be
    smacked, burnt, pinched etc etc

    Dont you know that Elvis???
     
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    I haven't asked every one of them, many are young children and babies and of the rest I doubt if there's a large percentage who actually practice fisting?

    I've been swinging since 1960, during that time have met and spoken to many hundreds of males and females.

    I've written a swinger's guide that has been published.

    Since being on the internet I have corresponded with many more people in many countries regarding all aspects of sexuality, even those I don't practice myself, including fisting.

    The feedback so far has led me to believe what I wrote was true, but suppose I should really have not made such a sweeping statement, so I stand corrected by Heel and forthwith alter my statement to 'most' receivers that I know of.
     
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    """"many are young children and babies and of the rest I doubt if there's a large percentage who actually practice fisting?"""

    WHAT does that mean????
     
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    Fisting is the hottest thing ever, to me anyway! It takes a little work to get to taking a hand. Moving up the size of toys works great and lots of lube. Anal or pussy it's a great time to share together.