Fisting?

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by slamd097, Jan 10, 2008.

  1. slamd097

    slamd097 New Member

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    Ok, I just have to ask...anyone ever been fisted???? Just curious.....
     
  2. heelfetish

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    Not personally (ouch!), but I have vaginally fisted my wife, and she loves it. I've yet to get my entire hand in, but I've gotten most of it. It's only happened a couple times over the past 10 years, kinda like our anal sessions. :)
     
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    slamd, why don't you start a thred on fisting? You might get more replies that way. Personally, no fists in any of my orifices, thank you very much!
     
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    Posts moved to their own thread. :)
     
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    Yes, I admit that I have fisted and I have been fisted. My first introduction to fisting came from being around several lesbian couples when I was in college. The book "A Hand in the Bush; The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting" had just been published and was a hit among the lesbian community. Although I am straight, I have explored my bi-curiousities by being with other girls many times in the past ten years. And yes, fisting has been part of that exploration. Fisting is not necessarily BDSM; rather, it is (or can be) a bridge to an intensity intimate experience between two partners. To be wildly honest, to climax with a fist inside of me and a vibe on the clit is enough to practically stop my heart.

    In my current relationship, my BF fists me on occasion as part of our BDSM scenes, but I want to make it perfectly clear that this is entirely consensual on my part.
     
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    I can fit my fist in my mouth :D Is that what we are talking about here...? :p

    Seriously... Have tried it with willing partners, but don't quite get it...
     
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    Wow....Just an innocent question and it is getting attention!!! YEAH!!!...lol

    I have had only one lover that has done it to me, and I to her. It was heaven!! Guys nothing better then a hot bath, and your lover starting oral and moving in on you. Incredible too when you cum...
     
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    Have you really had a partner fist you? :eek

    My tight little ring would split at the seams if my partner stuck her her thumb in... :eek:
     
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    I am trying to find the site that gave the best directions. WE had to work up to it, but she was patient. Seriously, when she started, it took us a little over an hour, just to get up to 3 fingers. We would not try again for a couple of days. And then go back to 3 fingers. Once that was easy, she would work to a forth, then all fingers in that cone shape. eventually she was able to get most of it in. then one night..POP..the whole thing went in. I was in heaven. All she would have to do is move her fingers around and I went nuts!! It was her little turn on. I can't get my wife to go for it, but every once in a while I will work at it...and try and get what I can in there..:D
     
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    This is something that has interested me and my hubby. He has gotten all the way up to his knuckles inside me but never anything past that. Maybe with time... I am usually a little sore the next day but the feeling I get during the action makes it worth it.
     
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    Me at first..:drool then I went all :brow
     
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    Sounds hostile to me!

    Just the use of the word "fist" sounds angry to me! I think it's a term pornographers have cooked up to appeal to maladjusted men who are too weird to get a real girl to have sex with! Angry rejects who are mad a women in general and so like this "fist" idea to vent their hostility and frustration!

    I have had sweet, exciting, happy, fun, and caring sex with over 100 women and none of them ever asked for or wanted a "fist"! God help us!
     
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    My wife loves it when she is in the right mood for it. It starts fingering her pussy with 1or2 fingers if she gets into that and gets very wet then I start adding more for her she goes wild at this have not got past my nuckles yet but we do try.
     
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    I would say that had I not discovered fising in a girl/girl moment, I am not sure I ever would have gone down that road with a man. You're right, no woman is going to ask a guy to fist her on the 3rd date. However, as part of a long-term relationship marked by love, trust, and adventure, I do not under any circumstance consider fisting to be maladjusted, nor do I consider my BF to be hostile or frustrated. Fisting in our relationship has its time and place.
     
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    Eek! No thank you :)
     
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    Another nea. Not sure I could drink enough to make that slip-so to speak ;)
     
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    I find it interesting that those that have had long term relationships have a tried it in one form or another. I wonder why it is called fisting, instead of handing? Weird, but yeah, fisting does sound violent, when the act isn't anything violent at all. It is something that is slow, and easy going. another weird..lol
     
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    I am very tight all the time so every time my husband and I do this we take it very, very slow. It usually takes about 25-30 minutes before he is all the way up to his knuckles. We usually do it about 1 or 2 times a month.
     
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    4 didgets, that's all i've had in. If my whole fist went in I'd brobably freak out. Then I say to Rose, "What the hell have you been fucking?" :phat
     
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    A couple times...

    ...over the years. It never felt what I would call 'good'. One time, it was this black guy, freaking huge. Did me up good. I was only 16 at the time and it still hurts when I think about it. I know, I know, hard to believe, but hey, stuff happens.

    I was doing something wasn't supposed to be doing (selling dope) and he's like 'whose got weed?' and I'm like "I do". I was trying to get rid of a few dime bags for this chick whose pants I was trying to figure a way to get into.

    Anyway, I whip out a bag for him to check out as was customary. He's like 'thanks, man' and turns to walk away. I'm like 'WTF? $10 azzhole." He's like "I don't think so". So, because I am stupid, I go after this wall of a human being and he proceeds to fist and kick and all around beat the shit out of me. Musta punched me 10 times before he made his point and I stopped getting up.

    So, I learned my lesson; Don't try to get in a girls pants by breaking the law or you will be the one getting fucked. And don't try fisting with some twice your size. Or you're still fucked.

    And no, I didn't get laid for my trouble.