Fisting!!

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  1. resigirl

    resigirl New Member

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    I love when my partner fists me. We can't seem to get passed the knuckles is that normal??
     
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    Ugh, yuck. What an 'orrible thought! Bad enough at the OB/Gyno.
     
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    I wonder if fisting would be unusual if not for modern porn. I've heard of the occasional large insertion from time to time, dating way back, but if fisting was popular, I must've run with the wrong crowd.
    So, I've never tried it. My sweetie doesn't even like two fingers in there. My dick is two fingers wide, but she likes that fine. Go figure.
     
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    I'm a one-finger kinda girl myself. I guess for some of us vaginal stretching only feels amazing when it's an actual cock doing it...I can't think of a better way to explain it :shrug

    Resigirl, the vagina is elastic, but childbirth can permanently stretch it, so I imagine you're facing the same odds if you shove a fist in there. Guys like "tight"...once you've lost your elasticity, I've heard it's a real bitch to get back again (and sometimes impossible).
     
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    I had one lover that liked it. She had never had a baby by the way. She was into pain though. I could just get my hand whole in.
     
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    Ive gotten four fingers in my wife but dont think I could get my whole fist in....dont want to ruin the fun moment by giving her pain.
     
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    Thanks guys. I guess I'm just not that flexible!!
     
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    That's a good thing.
     
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    Every now and then my SO would love a fisting but my hands are just too big. (I like to think I've got big man hands!) I'd get stuck at the knuckles and I wouldn't want to push it anymore just in case. In the end we invited another girl in with small hands to do it.

    New technique ticked and it was onto experimenting again!
     
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    Never thought of that, thanks!!
     
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    With some practice on technique you'll be taking a complete fist up to the wrist. A little practice & some patience will pay off here.

    Me & my wife like this as well, once I'm in, a few "twitchs" of the wrist & she squirts all over the place.

    As far as stretching and all, kegel excercises will keep your womanhood nice and elastic, as well as improve muscle control which will pay off in other ways.
     
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    I'm actually pretty keen on suggesting the use of oversized toys... big enough that they'd take patience to get in. But the stretching issue was someting I was concerned about too. That plus the fact that it's very very early days with me and this guy, so I don't think it's time to bring it up yet. He's forward enough about experimentation though, so will see.
     
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    i hate fingering all together let alone fisting, rather a cock anyday! :D
     
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    you go resigirl lifes too short so have fun just lie back and enjoy :dgrin:dgrin:dgrin:dgrin
     
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    I'm definatly with AussieChicky. Fists were made for fighting and fingers are for licking after a good feed of KFC. A personal prefference though, if it turns you on go for it. Remember the lube is the secret to any BIG insertion.
     
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    I think no man(or woman) should claim to be a fully accomplished lover if he can't bring his girl all the way, in the most intense way to a long, gasping, shuddering, sweat glistening orgasm, with a gentle finger or two.
    The combination of g-spot and clitoral orgasm is incredible to the women I've been experienced with. It takes as long as cunnilingus, but it's a lot easier on the neck muscles. :p

    I swear, it's true! I hope some of the girls of :sf can back me up on this. I'd hate to come off sounding like an over-confident blowhard. :eyes
     
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    its a bit od im my opinion
     
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    What ever floats your boat is cool, as for me, my fists would be to big and my partner would just laugh if I suggested it. I love to finger though ( and lick my fingers afterwards:brow )
     
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    cook 74, What is your prefferential finger liking taste? Fish or Chicken?
     
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    i haven't been able to get past a few fingers with my girl. i think it would be normal to not be able to get past the knuckles.