Hi all I am 20 years old and just recently got a great girlfriend. Well she is my first. I have problems though. My main problem is that I can't seem to stay hard when it comes down to it. Ill stay hard during fourplay until I take 20 seconds out of the fourplaying to put on a condom and I seem to go limp almost right away and I have to work my way back up to it. And my other problem is that the one time I did stay hard enough to put it in her I only lasted ummm about whole 2.3 seconds haha. I really hope its just anxiety, because I was nervous as hell. If anyone else has had this problem and know how to help me it would be greatly appreciated.