First time

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by BigCountry0069, Oct 20, 2017.

  1. BigCountry0069

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    First time anal play tonight. Wish me luck! And any tips?
     
  2. BeBop

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    Relax. Lots of lube. Do warm-up stretches :p before the main event. Stop and take breaks when/if you need to.
     
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    Are you the pitcher or catcher? Advice differ depending on which side of the mound you are on :D:p
     
  4. BigCountry0069

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    I'm bi curious
     
  5. Mikeylicksit

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    Pretty much BeBop's recommendations.

    Patience and plenty of lube. When you think there's enough lube, put more.

    During the activity: Take it slow, stretch it out slowly, no quick or forceful movements, allow time for the anus to adapt and get comfortable to the size or stretch. Keep towels or wipes handy, cuz you never know when there might be a Klingon alien.

    However, prep hours before is best. Ensure complete evacuation and water cleansing. If the participant has never done before, I recommend online research and starting out with smaller toys to get used to the feel or what to expect.

    Know your limits.

    Good luck and enjoy.
     
  6. BigCountry0069

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    This is what I got
     

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  7. Mikeylicksit

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    Just be careful about plugs and toys, be sure they have a good flange or surplus length to keep from having an accident or trip to the ER.

    Those tight little muscles are strong and can suck things right in.
     
  8. BigCountry0069

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    Ok thanks
     
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    Try an Aneros product.
     
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    How did it go?