First time!

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by redhotlobster, Nov 1, 2011.

  1. My husband had successful anal for the first time this morning! We had many failed attempts (he's reallyyyyyy wide :) ). We tried a different position and it worked! Painful, but we both were so glad! :) He came so fast! Idk, but when he cums, it's so sexy to me! Makes me even hotter! :)
     
  2. Essene

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    Kudos. Some females don't even try or want to try.
     
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    Congrats. You seem very excited! :)
    Glad you were able to complete your mission. Maybe next time it won't be so bad for ya.
     
  4. Thanks! I was scared cuz before it always hurt, but Idk. This time he went in so easy and it hurt, but it's cuz I was stretching to accommodate him and yeah, there's a lot of him. I'm nervous next time I can't do it. ):
     
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    one thing my wife wont do . she had a bad experience oneceand she has a hemroid from giving birth.
     
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    Just remember to be worked up and really horny first. That will help relax you. Try not to be so nervous or you'll tense up. Get occupied doing something else, like playing with yourself or your boobs, just to ease your mind off it for a moment.
     
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    In my experience things go better if you have at least one orgasm before you move to anal. And lots of coconut oil

    Congrats!!

    What was your position of success?
     
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    Congrats! I love how excited you seem. Gotta love success!

    Agreed, this can be applied to anything someone is new to I believe.
    Tense Anal Sex = Horrible Time
    It's not a chore or a requirement, it's meant to be fun, relax deep breath and enjoy it. I normally use something smaller perhaps anal beeds or a small butt plug to both stretch the hole slightly and get re-used to the feeling.
    Have lots of fun girl ;)
     
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    I need to get past her hemorrhoid. I could car less but it bother her. Not the pain she is just self conscious. I told her wont look . I meed to get this resolved. I'm glad your first attempt was great. Its making me horney just thinking about it. Many more. i may have to live through you on this lol..