First time

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by benyamin, Sep 7, 2011.

  1. benyamin

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    Hi everyone,
    I'll have a relationship soon and it's going to be my first time.
    I dont know i'm kinda scared tht i cum soon or...

    Any advice...?
     
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    Mmmm.....your profile says that your 46 years old.....:shrug
    how about posting in the new members section first and we can advise you better?:D
     
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    Benyamin??? Israeli?
     
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    no no
    i am not 46 sorry
    it was a mistake
     
  5. Mittimer

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    It's pretty hard to make a mistake of saying you're 46. As part of this forum you have to register with a valid birthday.

    Do you mind sharing how old you truly are? As lying about ones age is an instant ban on the forum.
     
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    I just turned 19
     
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    Now can i get some advices?
     
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    You shouldn't be ashamed of your age. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin.

    That being said just relax and don't stress about cumming too soon.
     
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    If she's had experience, let her take charge and just let things happen. You're probably going to cum pretty quickly the first time, but you'll recover quickly also - my first night I came 5 times. Better to be too gentle than too rough.

    Chances are her focus will be on making you happy, but don't forget about her. Start the process of learning how to make her happy too. Communication is the key to success.
     
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    How exciting! Hope it goes well. Relax and enjoy :)
     
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    Hi, being back home, seeing your post, first welcome.
    No matter your age, nothing wrong about being a virgin longer although you feel it sucks.
    The nicest way to tell you is straight: expect to be quick, not to last long.
    it's normal on first times. If you read you can find ways to get better later on once you are "broken in", you can stop just before you ejaculate, then start again, repeat the stop and go.
    This keeps you longer, and it builds up "penis endurance", and a stronger orgasm. Let it happen for now, kindly saying to get over it, things do get better.
     
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    Thanks everyone
    its her first time too
    since both of us its our first time.. if "as an example" theres no protection then theres very low chances of diseases...std... right?
     
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    No, honestly these days you can't trust that someones std or disease free. Even if they SAY they are a virgin.
    ALWAYS wear protection regardless of it's your first time or not.
    Not to mention, pregnancy. You CAN get pregnant on your first time regardless of what your friends friend told you lol.

    Be safe, don't be stupid.
     
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    Yes what Mittimer said. Plus you can also get a yeast infection without being sexually active which can be transferred between sexual partners.

    I say condom to be safe :)

    But then again birth control and condoms aren't always 100% effective.

    If you really don't want to use a condom. Birth Control and maybe both of you can get checked beforehand.

    I get checked regularly to make sure that things are all good down there.