Last night my girlfriend and i decided that after almost 2 years of dating, we were going to do 'it' tonight. So eventually we get into bed. Skipping all the other events here, i finally get the condom on, and have her guide me. I had barely gotten the head in, but she said to stop. After letting her rest for a few minutes, we tried again, a little further, but not much, and we stopped again. Tried one last time before we stopped trying that for the night and after she rested we went about our normal playing, ready to try another night. But my question is, is there anyway to make it easier on her? When we woke up this morning she said it was still a bit sore, but nothing too too bad. We had lube for both her and i, and i tried to get her to relax as much as i could. I'm trying not to hurt her too much, but that didn't seem to be too possible >_>; And staying hard is not easy when she sounds hurt ><; Soo... any suggestions?