well first of all, i'd like to aplologize for asking so many questions, while i myself know nothing and don't any expirience in sex/relationship/girls what not, seems like i don't really belong here. but it's something todo at night before i go to bed, (well i'm in bed to be more precise and anal about it) , and something to read in the morning. maybe it's my pathetcic execuse for a social life. anyway, my iniital assumption, that even today, espcially if the girl is hot, the initial foray into sexuall relationship during a relationship is initiated by the man, it's not like a girl seduces him or something that's porn stuff. so when he suggested, how did he , do it, and what made you decide to agree? and when? (3 dates? 4th) ?