I recently after much debate chose to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time for me ever. It hurt more than i thought but after a while it felt nice. Is it normal to not feel anything past the first 2 inches in during sex? I didn't feel a thing, so it felt similar to being fingered except less good if that makes sense? Fingers can aim and apply a lot of pressure where as a penis can't? Am i right? Will it keep getting better and better? We tried several positions, my favorite was sitting down in lotus. I felt the most friction and felt enjoyable. With my legs closed was also nice but he thought the movement was awkward. What are some good positions for maximum friction and minimum awkward? I do kegels and i will continue to and one day invest in a kegel master. Sometimes it hurts, like it felt like he was too big but he said he didn't feel the "End of the tunnel" What could be causing this pain. It was a weird pain. He said my canal wasn't straight it had slight curves and bends inside. Is this normal? Could the head be sticking in on one of these bends, as he has a curve to him, and that could be causing the discomfort?? Also my alone time doesn't feel as powerful as it once did . Will this go back to normal?