First time masturbating?

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  1. CaramelSagwa

    CaramelSagwa New Member

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    I touched myself when I was 12 or younger... But I didn't start regularly masturbating til 14. Also, when I found out my mom had dildos, I would take one from the hiding place and just look at it (I did that for days)...LOL then... One day I took one and washed it and tried it out.

    Ow.

    I don't remember what broke me first, tampons or that. I think that was before I tried tampons... But anyway. It hurt too much so I washed/put it away and didn't use it again until I became more curious.

    But the reason why I'm saying this is because I was young enough to think that I could be pregnant after using the dildo.......LOL I actually was worried that I was pregnant.

    :lol Nutso.

    Have any funny stories like this? Or first-time stories?
     
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    First time masterbating was probably when I was 12-13. I remember being in my bedroom during the day. I kept getting erections during the day and couldn't figure out why I kept getting them. Finally I just sat there on a chair and stroked it up and down slowly. It felt awesome! So I kept doing it. Then it started feeling really really good. And I stopped and wondered what could be happening. So I got up and walked around my room with a huge hardon wishing it would go away. Then I just decided to sit back down and stroke it again. Soon an overwhelming feeling came over me and I came! I was really weirded out about what just happened. But I do remember that I couldn't wait for it to happen again. I've been playing with it ever since!
     
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    Ladies, I recommend mastrubating with the shower head. I have a hand held shower head, and use it on my **** and balls about every time I take a bath. I can make myself shoot ***** with it. Heck, if you are alone or just have LDR these are the only ways to feel better. u know?
     
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    Don't remember my first time as this dates back to 4 or 5. As for a funny story i remember getting in trouble for masturbating during nap time in Kindergarden. I was on my belly unexposed, but i had no idea it was a private thing lol or even what it was lol. Just felt good. As for something odd, i vaguely remember a weird sexual image that bordered on sadomasochism something about unhanlded (perhaps floating) fork twirling a woman's pubic hair against her will. Why that image was there (or if it's a dream that has contaminated and been misplaced into that memory, i have no idea). I'm fucked up, i admit lol. Even as a yung'un
     
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    I was aware of what felt good to touch from about 6 =/....but I didnt actually masturbate until I was about 12 (I started developing breasts at 9 to the extent I had to wear a bra, at 12 I had a large C cup..im now EE). My gran as I grew up had a horse stud farm and had lots of other animals too, so right from little I knew how 'things' down there worked...I recall informing several children at play group how babies didnt come from stalks and arguing with my play group teacher about the fact (poor lady was probably trying to protect all the other little kids innocent minds) ...a few of the parents had words with my mom... I also informed them all that Santa wasn't really and only babies though he was...I was an evil four/five year old. Thankfully iv grown out of my informative age =)
     
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    I would have to look back at Playboy archives but it was the year of the 25th anniversary issue. My big bro had a subscription and I would sneak it into the bathroom. I would recognize those women in an instant if I saw them again. They were beautiful.
     
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    Don't remeber when but I do remember my dad had playing cards with nude woman. I used them for a long time. Back then all porn was on paper or 8mm film. If I was starting off now days forget about it.
     
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    I thought that I would get my mother and sister pregnant after masturbating and ejaculating on the toilet seat. Of course I wiped the area after use; but I thought that they would (some how) drag their vaginas across the latrine seat and, thus, collect, my semen. I was very phobic of this for years but never enough to stop masturbating.

    On a isde not, I would go to Winn Dixie, Goodings, or Walmart (before the super WalMart craze) and look at Maxim (as ell as FBB magazines) and steal the photos. I would, later, use the restroom for my lascivious actions.
     
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    I had my first orgasm when I was nine. Buddy--not his real name--and I were really good friends from about 7. He lived next door. We spent a lot of time together. He was a year younger than me. From about 9 years there was the occasional accidentally-on-purpose touch and oops! and giggle--it felt nice. I became curious and discovered very pleasant feelings when I played with myself--alone. Very soon I found I could make myself orgasm. Our neighbors moved--I have fond memories of Buddy :)
     
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    Not sure how old I was, probably my early teens. I finally got my own bedroom, which was right above the kitchen. The only heat was from a floor register that was basically a vent from the kitchen with a grate, and I distinctly remember my mother hollering up the register, asking me what in the hell I was doing...

    Oddly, I discovered the pleasure of pain at an earlier age, around eight or nine. I would apply clothes pins and weighted objects to my foreskin, balls, nipples, and earlobes. As I was the only male child (three sisters), and the only one of numerous neighborhood boys who was uncircumcised, I was very unsure of myself, and often ridiculed. I didn't really know about circumcision until I was thirteen or fourteen, and saw my first "other" uncut dick when I was 16, in the locker room...
     
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    I wonder if responders so far realize just how lucky they are to have had the freedom to discover their own bodies.

    My wife got caught rubbing her clothed bottom on the padded arm of a sofa when she was only about 8 years old, and was so punished emotionally that she never explored herself after that, and didn't allow herself to experience sexual pleasure again for over 40 years. This was due in part to her mom's own naivety, and her religious upbringing.
     
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    As a child and all through my marriage I was very uncomfortable with my sexuality so didn't openly masturbate. I always thought it was a "bad" thing to do. T has been instrumental in helping me to be more comfortable with my sexuality although I'm still somewhat uncomfortable but ALWAYS learning!

    When my children were young (especially my son), I always told them that what they were doing was OKAY but that they needed to do it in private. I believe that my children are mostly comfortable with their sexuality, at least I hope that helped them to be.
     
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    Good thinking RN2 - I wish more mothers were like you. I fear for my granddaughter because she is growing up under the indirect influence of my ex, who was, and probably still is, frigid.
     
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    I dont remember my first time exactly but i think it was prob a 11-12yrs old in the bath I think.

    Before that I do clearly remember show me your and I'll show you mine, and truth or dare games with neighborhood girls. It was all very innocent but they were all new feelings and I remember really enjoying it. Probably why to this day I am a bit of an exobitionist and have the fantasy of being watched during sexual activities either alone or involving my SO giving me a bj or having sex.
     
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    I'd say I was 10 or 11 first time but once I hit twelve, well I haven't stopped since :)
     
  16. Essene

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    See... my parents were also very strict (they still are) and very religious. I had enough sense, however, to not do it where people could potentially see me (without having to open a door or peek through a window). If they would have, I would have been disciplined heavily so it was only when I was in the restroom or at a friends house, the bathroom on a pier, or in Brookstone.

    So I do count myself as fortunate. Their overbearing nature always made me thing whether something was "okay" to do.
     
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    My first time I was 11. I knew all about dirty stuff when I was young because I used to hang out with the older "bad" kids at the back of the bus to and from school. They were about 13 and we used to talk about all kinds of dirty stuff...and spit and curse out the window...come to think of it those kids got me into all kinds of trouble in school...anyway...They were actually talking about it and I was like "Wow what's that?" So they explained it...and it sounded awesome. For some reason I couldn't comprehend it was supposed to be done in private...and I started doing it right there on the bus. They were like "No! wtf are you doing..blah blah" So as soon as I got home I jumped in the shower to try it out. I was thinking about a hot girl from school and kept thinking her name over and over. I actually had an orgasm but couldn't come yet. Then I wasn't sure if I was thinking her name or saying her name out loud. I remember thinking that maybe my parents heard and I was really embarrassed lol. Also I was going to Catholic school at the time and I kept thinking God was mad at me for doing it.
     
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    Oh Lordy. My first time masturbating was when I came out of the womb. My parent's told me I would masturbate in church when I was a baby, and it was highly embarrassing to them because people would come up and ask what I was doing! True story.

    I had a high sex drive since I was born. I remember being a child and stealing my dad's tools, mainly the screw drivers or anything that had a good handle. The first time I ever got my own sex toy - and I still have that thing, and it is still my favourite (but a little worn) - I was probably 12. I still remember being so scared walking into the sex shop. The other one in town had turned me away because I was too young! But the lady at this one just smiled at me, asked how old I was, and sold it to me anyway! My first dildo was a realistic looking brown skinned one, about 9-10 inches in length. The lady even remarked "um maybe that's too big".
    I still remember the first times attempting to use it, it hurt so I stuck with the screw drivers and other random objects for a while, but then one day, it finally fit!

    My early years of masturbating were interesting - I got caught from my parent's probably hundreds of times. My dad stopped going into my room, my mom learned to knock first. I even got caught this one time masturbating with the vacuum cleaner, using the suction on my clit. Oh boy... embarrassing times.

    I got addicted to excessive masturbation at a very young age. I still remember not being old enough to walk barely, and I would rape my stuffed animals that were the same size as me.

    But as for the excessive part that became a problem, I began to use sexual release as a coping skill to deal with any stress. For example when i did math in elementary school, it turned me on. Because I hated math. I masturbated during class regularly, thinking no one would notice. But after awhile my too high of sex drive started to worry me, and i began hating having to masturbate all the time. I would ask my mom if it was normal and she'd just... get too embarrassed to talk to me.

    I was born a sex addict, otherwise I was created into one with my habits at a young age.
     
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    Trying to follow Thunderseed is a bit like the Who following Jimi Hendrix all those years ago. However..............

    For a guy, I think I was pretty late - 14. I went to a boys' school and there had been plenty of discussion about it but I didn't know what to do. I had actually had some contact with girls before masturbating and in fact that summer had been on holiday and failed to pickup on some signals from a girl. She had taken me to a local shop to show me some pictures of naked girls, then gone back to her room. While she lay on the bed, she told me that she liked to lie there 'thinking'. While telling me this she was rubbing her finger up and down the zip of her jeans.

    Anyway, when I got back to school that year, I made a point of asking the guys in the class how to do it. They delegated the class perv to demonstrate which he did using the analogy of holding and stroking a cat (not a pussy.........a cat!).

    After that, it took a couple of times to get it right but when it did, I got the biggest surprise of my life. I think I thought that there would be a little ejaculate. Instead my hand was covered in the stuff. Scared the wits out of me and put me off...............for a few days.

    Wish I had discovered it before meeting the girl on holiday. I have always been embarrassed about that situation. Although she was older than me, so she maybe understood. :ugh