Well, me and my girlfriend want to try anal for the first time together. I've done my research, got a fairly good idea of how to go about it the right way, but I'd really like if anyone can just throw some good advice from their experiences with this, guys and gals. #1 is definately do not want to cause her pain or hurt her in any way shape or form. I understand it can be very painful if not done properly and I wanna avoid that!! #2 I want this to be an experience that we both end up througlhly enjoying together. I hope this is extremely pleasurable for us both and I hope it brings us closer together as a couple. I'm sure I'm probably going to like it, but I want to be sure it feels very pleasurable to her also. She has done it in the past maybe twice, and from what she tells me, one time felt alright, and one time it didn't. This will be my first time doing anal ever. Any words of wisdom from your personal experiences to help this be an amazing event between us is greatly appreciated!! One last note, we plan on using astroglide for our lube, is this a wise choice for this? Thanks everyone, have fun.