First sex toy for a couple

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Soulspinner, Dec 9, 2010.

  1. Soulspinner

    Soulspinner New Member

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    First and foremost, I have already read the sex toy review thread.:)

    I am shopping for the first toy for us to use as a couple. My wife has only had one experience with a sex toy (Jackrabbit). She HATED it. She didn't like the artificial texture one bit. We actually threw it in the trash after trying a few times.

    When it comes to playing with herself, she's not a penetration freak. She loves to masturbate with her fingers, and the occasional bed sheet or pillow for pressure against her clit. In fact, it's all about her clit. Finger fucking just doesn't cut it for her.

    I'm inclined to try a Bullet first. I think it could deliver the power that we are searching for; and it could easily be introduced into her masturbation routines. What do y'all think? Any experience and suggestions is greatly appreciated!
     
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    I'm driving so ill get to the point..lol.

    I started out years ago with a Trojan Vibrating Ring. simple and inexpensive. but eventually the bullet I'd get is the California Exotics turbo 8. I have had quite a few and its very powerful.
    good luck !
     
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    Hitachi Magic Wand vibrator. No penetration, unless you buy other attachments. It costs much less than a proper rabbit (or at least not more in some cases), and they are A.M.A.Z.I.N.G. They plug into the wall so they don't run out of gas, and the motors are Strong. She'll love it.
     
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    While it seems pretty big and bulky, the reviews and testimonials for the HMW certainly speak for themselves! Have you used this with a partner, for clitoral pressure during sex? It seems like it could be awkward. Also, exactly HOW LOUD is this thing? I've read mixed reviews.

    I think I will buy this regardless. But I'm also interested in the Bullet, as we travel quite a bit. The Wand seems impractical for traveling.
     
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    Hello myself and Mr bunny have a bag of tricks and we use the bullet, very pleasurable but turning it on by twisting the bottom isn't great as there are occasions we have twisted too far and it doesn't work. :ugh
     
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    This is what you need.
     
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    Best ever clit stimulator and superlative Xmas present: LELO
    Looks like a PC mouse, bat charger similar a mobile phone, has range of serious vibration options, expensive but probably the nicest present you could give her short of another diamond.
    A quality sex accessory indeed.
     
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    Well, I sell sex toys - but I'm going to tell you based off of my own experience


    Like your wife, it's all about the clit~ I personally have a bullet because it's small and I can bring it wherever I go. Especially when I travel. I have a 'Bunny Bullet' - it comes with a bunny sleeve for a clitoris tickler - the bullet is water resistant and comes in seven vibration modes. I love this baby - and it's extremely inexpensive.

    http://www1.passionparties.com/CAP/images/1191.jpg
    Another product which I also have is the caress. This one is softer and perhaps might be more suitable to your wife since she feels like some products are too artificial. This one has five function and the sleeve can be removable.

    http://www1.passionparties.com/CAP/images/1234.jpg
    Bullets are inexpensive and they do their job very well!

    <Mod note: I changed the pics ti links to keep it office friendly>
     
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    My wife and I don't use a lot of toys to help *achieve* orgasm, but I want to recommend one that *supplements* male orgasm in a most heavenly way. I occasionally stick the non-vibrating prostate massage device in my butt. It's akin to a butt plug, but anatomically correct to do a job like no plain plug could possibly do. With the massager inserted, my wife says she can feel extra firmness of my cock in her pussy. She comes more easily, mostly because she can feel and sense that I'm "stoked". When I have an orgasm, which is faster then normal unless I hold back, it's mind-numbingly explosive.
     
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    hmm i might have to try this one....i actually kinda like my butt and prostate being playde with.
     
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    Thanks to everybody for the feedback. The HMW really had me curious, but I thought it would be a little too much for her. I bought a simple, three-speed bullet at the local toy store.

    We just returned from a week long beach vacation. Needless to say, we wore that thing out. I surprised her with the toy on the first night - we used it for stimulation during missionary. Her facial expression during her first orgasm was absolutely priceless. It was a fun week, with lots of amazing sex (2 to 3 rounds each day).

    She doesn't think she would use it solo, but she really loves that we can use it together during sex. I'm still intrigued by the HMW, maybe one day she'll change her mind....