First and foremost, I have already read the sex toy review thread. I am shopping for the first toy for us to use as a couple. My wife has only had one experience with a sex toy (Jackrabbit). She HATED it. She didn't like the artificial texture one bit. We actually threw it in the trash after trying a few times. When it comes to playing with herself, she's not a penetration freak. She loves to masturbate with her fingers, and the occasional bed sheet or pillow for pressure against her clit. In fact, it's all about her clit. Finger fucking just doesn't cut it for her. I'm inclined to try a Bullet first. I think it could deliver the power that we are searching for; and it could easily be introduced into her masturbation routines. What do y'all think? Any experience and suggestions is greatly appreciated!