Well, after looking over some stuff and researching my g/f and I made our first purchase last night. We're new to the whole "toy" experience so we thought it would be best to start slow and build a little collection. We wanted to mimic a "3some" fantasy, but neither of us believe in group sex. Morals are too strong, go figure. Also wanted something that sticks to other places. After looking through many we thought a good first time realistic would be: http://www.edenfantasys.com/dildos/realistic-dildos/tommy-blade-sensafirm-penis Since we were in the market for new things, I heard glass is a good way to go for different types of temperatures, and even solo-play. She also wanted something "cool" so we decided on: http://www.edenfantasys.com/SWIRL-RIBBED-GLASS-DILDO-WITH-CURVED-G-SPOT-HEAD/adult-toys-dvds-14960 And since we seem to have trouble finding condoms that fit AND are extremely textured I thought I'd give these a whirl: http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-toys-for-men/penis-sleeves/7-stimulator-rings -- I didn't post pictures due to people may be at work, and what not. But if you have any good advice and/or suggestions for other toys, websites, etc ... I'd love to hear about it.