First Date ideas?

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  1. ducktales

    ducktales New Member

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    So other than the usual dinner and a movie what are some of your ideas for a first date?

    pool/darts at a bar immediately comes to mind, as does mini gold and maybe laser tag.
     
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    Given that its summer right now, i'd suggest the county fair if yours happens to be going on. Thats always been a fun date.

    Also, we have a local "private" railroad nearby with refurbished steam locomotives that does a run through the canyon every other weekend or so, which is a really beautiful trip. Follow it up with a picnic lunch/dinner, and you're good. Perhaps you have a similar thing in your area?

    You mentioned mini-golf, which is a good one, but i'd also recommend bowling and ice/roller skating. I'm not all that fond of the laser tag idea you mentioned though.

    A lot of the gals in my area are pretty fond of baseball, so for me, thats usually an option too.
     
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    Yeah ice/roller skating is always good especially if one of the partners isn't good at it :brow

    On a side note, I'm not really looking for anything for me, me and my gf just had our 1 year anniversary, I was more just throwing the topic out there for discussion amongst the members of this esteemed forum.
     
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    Why not cook dinner for her? Make it romantic...good food (whatever you are capable of), candles, music that suits the mood (whatever that may be), good drinks, etc.

    Question: If you have a girlfriend, then why worry about women thinking you are repulsive? (I'm combining thoughts from two threads here.) Are you looking to replace your girlfriend, or is there something else going on that we haven't gleaned? If she's already your girlfriend of 1 year, how can this be a first date?

    BD
     
  5. ducktales

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    Other thread was just a joke, I was messing around. As I stated above I'm not looking for advice here just throwing out a thread topic to get a discussion going.
     
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    I guess we will forgive you for the joke, this time. :D A good first date should be a fun one. Darts and pool are good, but only after you treat her to a nice dinner, or cook one for her. We like to be made to feel special, after all. Also, open ALL doors for her! Good luck, and let us know if she finds you repulsive LOL!
     
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    Again, I AM not looking for ideas. I already have a gf, was just posing this question to open some discussion in the forum.
     
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    Take her to a POT LUCK SUPPER! It shows you know how to integrate with other human beings. It shows you're not a boozer. It shows you appreciate things other people personally create. Also it gives your friends a chance to check her out and give you feedback.
     
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    Well, you could always do what I did with FC...tell her "Would you rather go see this band with me, or would you rather get a bottle of tequila and play twister?". (Actually, that wasn't our first date, it was our third...IIRC, we ended up doing both however.)

    BD
     
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    Tell em what else,baby!
     
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    Museums are cool..shows off your intellectual side a bit.
    Afterwards a bar with darts like your imagining might be a good idea...shows your not just a geek too!! :p
     
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    I would love to go to the park on a first date and just feed the ducks, or play video games, go bowling or ice skating, like others said :)
     
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    Do some paddle boating at your local lake...or...if your like me use your speed boat...if you have a power/bass boat your in like flynn...;)...then go out for cocktails, food, and a movie.
     
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    Cocktails...check
    Food...check
    movie...still have not seen The Dark Knight, but check...:)
     
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    Man i was just thinking this earlier today. Wish i only had the cash to be able to do it. I'd absolutely love to take a girl there right now.
     
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    Go See It!!! Great flick.
     
  17. FlirtyChick

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    Oh I will. Do you babysit? LOL
     
  18. coolwhip

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    wut?...lol
     
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    So i can go to the flick with hubby..I pay well LOL
     
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