fingering the anus?

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  1. martin9p2

    martin9p2 Member

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    Does you (men or women) enjoy having your anus fingered during sex? Do tell.
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    I don't personally. But I know alot who do, both men and women.

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    Yes If I'm in the mood, but only just before I'm ready to O.
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    I've never had it done to me....although the thought has crossed my mind a time or two. My wife enjoys it on occasion. Just like Rocket Queen my wife enjoys it as she's getting ready to cum.
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    i like it a little bit when my wife is giving me head
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    YES! My husband likes it and so do I.
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    Ive had it done to me and its OK...doesnt really enhance or bother my fun.....on the other side, my wife really enjoys a finger or a few fingers in her ass as Im going down on her....we even have a vibe specifically for the backdoor that I use on her very regularly.
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    My wife does like it without too much pressure. I like when plays a little with it too.
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    I have never done it during sex, but love it during a good solo session. I am sure it would be great during sex as well if the wife was open to it.
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    Ditto
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    Yes, I like the backdoor play, but full on fingering (which to me still sounds weird to say I get fingered as a guy, lol) is not something I want all the time. Usually on a regular basis I like a bit more of a tease back there and progressively more pressure with either a finger or a toy, with some light penetration.
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    Not too long ago I tried something on my wife and much to my surprise she had the best orgasm I think she has ever had. What I do is while I lick her clit I insert a finger into her pussy and bend it down slightly applying a little pressure. After a little bit of that when I know she is really starting to feel it I place my thumb (from the same hand) against her asshole and apply a slight amount of pressure there. It's almost as though I am trying to press my finger and thumb together. Sometimes instead of my thumb I will use my index finger from my other hand and will insert it. She seems to enjoy that a lot. The first time I tried this she had a very strong orgasm and each time I have done it since she has always had better than her average orgasm.

    As a side note..........Since I started doing this it seems as though she is more open to anal stimulation than she was prior. I have always wanted to have anal sex and we have tried but to no avail, it was too painful. I don't have a problem with that as I would never want her to do anything that was painful just to please me but about a week ago as I was pressing my cock against her ass I thought I was going to make it in. I started to enter but before I got too far she needed me to stop. It was the furthest I have made it so maybe I am onto something here:rockon

    I also like to have mine fingered slightly. Years ago I had a friend with benefits that I used to have sex with regularly and she enjoyed using a vibrator on my ass. I was into having her penetrate but let her rub it with it and I enjoyed that as did she.
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    i enjoy a finger in my ass especially if doggy or from behind. have to admit i didn' use too :)
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    my wife recently brought up the idea of a small vibe while giving me head...definitely not opposed to it...can't wait actually.
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    Its a huge turn on for me
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    i love it. especially a little egg up there vibrating away while we have sex
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    We've both tried it a few times. I didn't like it much.
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    My ex loved it, she used to love anal play,licking, fingering etc but never really liked me to fuck her. I quite like my ass played with,she tried a vibe on me once, didn't really dig that much tho..but the idea of it turns me on!