fingering question

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by katy, Feb 9, 2007.

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  1. katy

    katy New Member

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    I was wondering. If I had problems putting more than one finger in me, is sex likely to be uncomfortable ? Cause I can put two with difficulties right now when I'm really turned on and aroused. And I'm sorta scared you know I won't be able to have sex.
     
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    I think about that too, Katy! Although, I haven't even tried putting my fingers inside >_>;
     
  3. NaughtyKnickers

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    I've been having sex for 8 years and and if I just tried inserting a finger out of the blue I think I'd hurt myself, too. :lol

    In all seriousness, the female body is an amazing thing, and it is designed to accomodate a penis for intercourse.
    The old standby is relevant, "if a baby can pass through it, a penis can fit too!" :)

    Your first time is likely to be a little painful or uncomfortable. Being with a caring man who knows this and is willing to treat your body with special consideration to that will make the experience much more comfortable for you.
    It should get better after the first few times, and from there on, sex should never be painful so long as you are healthy and aroused when you have intercourse.
     
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    Well thanks you all. I am just a bit worried, you know ? I guess it's normal right ?
     
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    You bet. Worry is 100% normal, and 110% female. ;) ;) lol!
     
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    But dont worry, That makes it tight, Just go for what feels good.

    Hiker:sf
     
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    When you are properly stimulated,you will 'ease' up.Our bodies adjust.
     
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    melicious The Old Maid
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    "Properly stimulated." Pussycat, could you be more clear please?

    ::poke::prod::poke::prod::
     
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    My significant other had to have surgery to open her because she was so small.
     
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    Am I going to have to show you an example Miss Mel??:brow
     
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