Finger me this??

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by jollycock69, Nov 29, 2006.

  1. jollycock69

    jollycock69 New Member

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    Alright...I'm a massotherapist. I'm REALLY good with my fingers. I'm also good with my tongue and other aspects of my body (or so I'm told). I deliver orgasms to my partner multiple times in a session. I have even successfully given my partner the Venus Butterfly orgasm. For those of you that may not know what that is...it's an orgasm that lasts for over one hour causing hundreds to thousands of orgasmic contractions. I've got the foreplay down and the sex is good...we roleplay, voyeur, a little bdsm etc...Here is the problem. I'm running out of things to do. Now I know that as long as my partner gets delivered to those lofty heights every time she will constantly be looking forward to sex, so thats not the problem. I'm running out of things to do. The other thing is that she doesnt really do research on new sex tips n' tricks, so I get the same thing a lot...I'm gettin' bored!! Some advice would be great! :)
     
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    Blindfold her and feed her fruit...cherries..apple slices..grapes..etc.

    Change it up while you are feeding her.. kiss her breasts..inner thighs...tummy..all her hot spots... then feed her a few grapes..go back to kissing her hot spots..feed her a piece of fruit and kiss her lips...tease her lips with the fruit...it will turn you on also, trust me (watching her mouth suck on the fruit) ..do this for awhile...

    Then go down on her...when you get her really wet...let her lick her juice off your fingers..do this a few times...

    Then when she is is totally aroused... you know when she starts to thrash around and can't stop wiggling and squirming...tell her you won't keep licking her clit unless she holds totally still...if she moves..you stop licking...

    See how long she can hold out before she totally loses it
     
  3. pirouette

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    I love when my husband buys me an "interesting" present. Last one I got was a fantastic book of Japanese photography (all bondage, mostly ropes). It's amazing and beautiful. I've also received a few "instructional" books and videos as gifts. It fires up my interest when I get lovely, assorted erotica (and yes, they randomly include sex techniques, tips, etc.).;)
     
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    Why don't you make a suggestion that you guys go shopping at a porn shop together, and causally make a suggestion or two. If she knows what you want, than she will most likely try to make you happy.
     
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    A lot of women take a more passive role in sex, particularly if she is as young as you are. The other thing is there are only so many variations to two bodies together!

    I recommend you continue to lavish pleasure on your partner, but don't overlook your own feelings and sensations as well. I've had sex about four times a week with the same woman for twenty years, work it out. Mostly in the same bed, mostly variations on the same script, from time to time variety like some role play, light BDSM, outdoors sex, playing games. But mostly the same woman, same bed, different times of the day.

    And no matter how many times we do it, I still love sex, every part of sex from the first anticipation right through to cuddling at the end. I love what my wife goes through, I love the pleasure I go through, I love her. Sex is good every time, variety is good too, but surely you can't be getting bored with sex at your age?