finding your hidden kink

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by redorn, Sep 23, 2007.

  1. redorn

    redorn New Member

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    random question for the day, how do you find out what odd things turn you on?

    eg:I love having fingernails dragged gently down my arm (especially when I'm drunk for some reason...), but I only came across it by accident, it would never have occured to me to try it.

    theres the "mainstream" kinks like ice, handcuffs that everyone knows about simpley because everyone knows about them, theres the ones you come across from someone else enjoying it on a porn site or a forum like this and trying it yourself and theres accidently finding it out, getting an unexplained stiffy every time you see your belgish next door neighbour throwing empty beer cans at the cat widdling in her garden.

    how would you go about finding those hidden turn ons that you don't know are there and whats the oddest way you found out something odd made you hot?

    ed

    ps. for bonus points, give a rational explaination for how someone could realise that they get turned on by women in high heels stomping on model railways
     
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    i say just try anything that comes to mind,
    key to finding your kink is to be open to anything, then determine afterwards if you liked it or not.
     
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    Live 50-60 years and you will find most of them.:eyes
     
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    bighiker2003 Banned

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    Daydreams, Daydreams and more Daydreams.
    When you have a daydream about anything and get a hard on
    then You know it's what you like.

    Hiker
     
  5. Bluesy

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    :lol You can't get more straightforward advice than that :tup
     
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    untill you try you'll never know so we have to keep on trying new things or you never know what you might be missing
     
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    larry appleton New Member

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    I really dont know why, but panties and pantyhose will always turn me on. Ever since I was little, till now those get me going nooooo problem!
     
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    Stockings and Garters

    My wife and I grew up in the days when gartered stockings were what girls and women wore. My wife is still a stockings and garter girl. She does not care for pantyhose and says to this day that garters and stockings are all a part of her being a lady. She has great legs and I love seeing her in fine hosiery. We have been married for nearly 37 years and I think I've put her stockings on her and gartered her up a few thousand times. It's still a thrill:)