Finally Had Sex!

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by igor, Aug 11, 2008.

  1. igor

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    A couple of days ago, the wife finally realized that our relationship had really reached an all-time low and that we needed to get the intimacy back. It has been 4 1/2 years since we had sex. I was about at the breaking point myself and I know she sensed that something had to be done. She never wanted to talk about things and I was too chicken to initialize a discussion. Anyway, we had a talk and ended up acting like teenagers in the kitchen, then retired to the bedroom. The next hour was quite exhausting/relaxing. That night, for the first time in months, i slept all through the night without waking up. The next morning I would have been ready to go again but I didn't want to push my luck. So I hope the trend continues as I believe it will.

    I have to say that thanks to this forum, I met (on-line, not in person) A very special, wonderful person who was also having some personal issues. We were able to comfort each other and offer moral support when things were looking down, and I hope that person received as much good from our relationship as I have, and I hope that relationship continues to be a benefit to us both. So thanks :sf for bringing us together!
     
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    Good for you Igor.:cheer:cheer 4-1/2 years is a long, long time glad you are back in the saddle. Communication is the most important thing in a marriage. If you don't tell her she don't know.
    Hope you get it on a regular basis from here on out. If not, talk to her about, don't wait another 4.5 years:eek.
     
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    Glad things are looking up!! I have come to relize too that Communication is so important! Wheather you get any were with the other half its so importnant to keep talking and hopefully it works out in the end! Im so glad you had a great night..And cheers to a "fresh" start :)
     
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    Congrats bud :D *CHEERS!*
     
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    Sexcellent Igor!

    Definitely agreed...open and honest communication is so very important to a marriage.

    BD
     
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    Awesome to hear! That's a really long time not to get any. Hopefully you both enjoyed it equally and it will become a regular thing.
     
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    /cosigns
     
  8. heelfetish

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    :woohoo :cheer Do we need to have a sexy party now?

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  9. Barbwire

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    I couldn't find an emoticon that said, "Congratulations on Your Nookie" so this one will have to do for now..



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    Here's to our friend Igor: Cheers brother, and congratulations and bringing sexy back!
     
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    That's really nice to hear. Congrats man :)
     
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    HELL YEAH!! I'm very happy for you! Hopefully, it continues.
     
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    Igor! AWESOME! Good for you baby!
     
  14. igor

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    Welll thanks folks! You are all a great bunch! And last nite was another winner. Back in the old days, we were lucky to do it twice a month - twice in a week is unbelievable! It's like being a horny teenager all over again.,:phat:dgrin
     
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    Awesome! Keep the ball rolling, Igor! (Pun intended ;).)

    BD
     
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    congrats on the nookie!!
     
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    Igor,

    I think this thread could the one of the most inspirational I have seen and I am happy for you beyond reason, man! :bow

    You may not be the only one in your boat, but I think you are the one that is paddling the hardest and I salute you for that.

    Come on, babydoll, please write up a good, long, account of what is going on. I think that if some members heard your story, they would be given a sense of hope.

    You could be their "bright light", hon, how cool is that? :cool
     
  18. johnnyangel694u

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    good for you!!!!!:cheer

    I sure as hell hope we don't have to wait until January 11, 2013 to hear it again.:lol
     
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    FAB U LOUS! :bow
     
  20. igor

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    I promise I will as soon as I get the computer situation squared away here at home. Very soon now.:)